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I have a unique name, think John Doe, and I'm hoping to create a unique and "professional" looking email account like [email protected] or [email protected]. Since my name is common, all reasonable permutations are taken. I was considering purchasing a domain with something unique, then making personal family email accounts for [email protected] [email protected] etc.

Consider that I'm starting from scratch (I am). Is there a preferred domain registrar, are GoDaddy or NameCheap good enough? Are there prebuilt services I can just point my domain to or do I need to spin up a VPS and install my own services? Are there concerns tying my accounts to a service that might go under or are some "too big to fail"?

I can expand what hangs off the domain later, but for now I just need a way to make my own email addresses and use them with the relative ease of Gmail or others. Thanks in advance!!

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Lots of people have said worthwhile things. Don't selfhost email for example. While going with an email hoster has been recommended a couple times, which is good and easy, I want to offer an alternative: SimpleLogin (or comparable providers). Essentially a "email alias generator", it forwards received emails to one or more mail addresses (Google, Hotmail, what have you). It also allows you to connect a domain and then create new inboxes on the fly by simply sending (or telling a service to send) an email to that non-existing inbox. Which is incredibly handy if you're faced with a situation that demands an email, where you don't want to give out an actual email.

So say you have the domain doe.com, and you're in a physical shop at the register, faced with the question if you want to get 10% off by registering for their members club. You can simply give the cashier the email "coupon_[email protected]" (which does not yet exist), the email will be sent, received bei SL, the inbox created and the coupon code forwarded to your Gmail account. Afterwards, you can disable or delete the inbox and never have to worry about newsletters or data breaches. Nifty!

Every one of these boxes also has its own "sent from" address visible in your actual mail account. Which means that you can simply respond to incoming emails, and the recipient will see the mail address they sent a message to. This also means that you can set up filters in your mail account to move messages from certain sender addresses into specific labels, as if they were real separate email accounts.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Very interesting. How long have you used this? Has it been reliable the whole time?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Please keep in mind that the alias functionality offered by services like SimpleLogin should be included with any paid email service. So SimpleLogin only makes sense if you're using a free email service (like Gmail) and using the free SL aliases based on their domains; bearing in mind those free tiers will usually be severely limited.

If you intend to get your own domain you might as well use a real mail provider.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Yep, I use Fastmail and it has this well integrated within the service as “Masked Emails”

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I've been using it for around 1.5 years, and so far I've received every message I've wanted to receive. Though I am always sort of aware that they are yet another party I depend on with my mail delivery, so I don't usually use them for crucial services.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

SimpleLogin

So people must also acknowledge and agree that the solution can read their messages. I guess your use case is junk mail. If OP is looking for an external email for regular use, this might not be a good solution?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Email encryption, as far as I know, is to this day rarely implemented. So your host as well as any entity in between participants will be able to read your messages. SimpleLogin is also provided by Proton if that means anything to you.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Nice. Yeah, keeping in mind Google/Microsoft have their algorithm/ad stuff going through your messages, we usually just count on them not committing fraud directly against us :)