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[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago

Is this household or individual income? Either way, whack

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

That's a good (and reassuring) observation!

Still, even if it's a bot/troll/etc. post, if we don't call it out when we see it, the culture of the community slowly shifts towards "bigotry is acceptable here"...

I'm gonna keep pointing this stuff out when I see it whether the user is acting in good faith or not :)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

Aight you got me there

I, too, am down to clown tbh

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Sure, notice that I included this possibility in the last paragraph.

Also notice that that possibility doesn't reinforce the perspective that "women are sluts for clown daddies"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I like the composition of yours more than Hyner's tbh!

He still gets credit for the cool idea though :)

[–] [email protected] 78 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (6 children)

The fact this has 40 up votes right now makes me feel like lemmy is losing a diverse user base. Like, where are the women to down vote this obviously shitty take?

Let's list some reasons why these women could have done this that aren't "women are sluts for clown daddies":

  • he's their boss, and leveraging his insane power over them to make it hard to say no and keep their job
  • he's just an extremely powerful man and they're afraid of pissing him off
  • they have insecurities, (like the "loser cuck" fallacy!) that they aren't valuable or desirable as partners, and attention from someone as powerful as him feels like affirmation of their value even if they don't like him or he treats them badly
  • they understand that, by not resisting his advances, they might be able to provide themselves a link to a financial source that could support them and a child
  • he literally sexually harasses, assaults, or rapes them and they don't feel like they can criminally pursue one of the richest men in the world

Like, yeah, some of them might be individuals who have bad taste in men or are shitty people themselves. I'm even certain that some of them are! But damn, can we take the perspective of the woman for one second? It's not a good look to find yourself agreeing with incels on the internet

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 months ago

Why post this summary article from an obscure news group when you could have posted the actual report from the former official?

It's written in accessible language, so it's not like it's too technical to understand or anything...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Contrary to most of the opinions in this thread, I think this (and the van gogh incident) is a great and appropriate protest.

It causes a knee-jerk reaction to be mad that they are harming a precious piece of history and culture, which is a perfect juxtaposition to how the climate change harms our precious natural resources and will harm ourselves, and

It achieves this without actually causing permanent damage to the subject artifact, and

It is incendiary enough to remain in our public consciousness long enough for it to affect the discourse.

I only wish there was a more direct way to protest the people most responsible for the worst effects (oil executives, politicians, etc.), but the truth is that the "average middle-class Westerner" (most of the people who have access to enjoy these particular cultural relics) is globally "one of the worst offenders". While I firmly believe that individuals have less power to enact change than corporations and policymakers, this protest does achieve the goal of causing reflection within people who have the power to make changes.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It must be different in different places. I went from a renter in one area, to an owner in the same area, to a renter again in a different area in the period of 5ish years (long story).

Rent in the first area was about the same cost for a two bedroom, two bath, 1000 sq ft apartment as the entire mortgage on a 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 1200 sq ft house, including principle, interest, and taxes. The only reason people would rent there is because they don't have the money for a down payment.

When we left that area, we could have become landlords and rented the house out. We could have easily gotten twice the entire mortgage in rental income, but we felt that being a landlord was unethical (especially since we were relatively wealthy for that area, although we made less than the US median family income). We sold the house and broke even.

Now, we live in a much higher COL area. It's true here that renting is much cheaper than buying, but that's because you can't get a SFH for less than about $1.5 million here. My rent on my 1 bed, 1 bath, 700 sq ft apartment is more than twice my mortgage in my previous area. Our incomes have increased, now we make slightly above the median family income. But our leftover at the end of the month honestly went down a ton. If we weren't here to get an education, we'd be gone by now.

Just saying.... As someone who has both rented and owned, I definitely feel more like I'm shoveling money into a fire as a renter. Owning was the best financial situation I'd ever been in.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Just curious, when you say "those products are still on the shelves", do you mean they're selling product from the lot numbers that were recalled?

You should be able to tell the grocery store employees and have them remove it if they're selling recalled products, but also I wouldn't be surprised if they're only selling products that are no longer part of those recalled lots

Edit: WAIT you said "still not on the shelves", sorry! Ignore my comment lol

[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 months ago

shoulda said "yarrr, ye dumb bastard!"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 7 months ago

awesome!! I'm psyched you caught it and enjoyed it :-)

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