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Underrated benefit of lemmy is like minded people will tend to join the same instances and if I don't want to interact with those groups I can just filter the whole instance. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

hello fellow sdf'er :) I specifically chose SDF so I could choose what to block myself, and so far I have just blocked a lot of anime. Anything political I see is leftist.

What higher/specialized ed do you have? How'd it help you get/keep your job? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Does ex(1) count as specialized/higher ed? On BSD systems I just use standard ed(1).

Women of Lemmy, how to pleasure someone that does not enjoy any clitoris stimulation? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

If you don't mind me asking, how is this affecting you? How do you feel about it?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Curiously, I also got milk and irish passport in bing.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I got a similar result in DDG.

Women of Lemmy, how to pleasure someone that does not enjoy any clitoris stimulation? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Is this something she expects you to figure out for her?
If I were you, I'd explain that you're open to try anything in any way that she is willing to try with you, but the initiative must come from her. You are there for her to help her figure it out, if she's interested in trying something.
If she is interested in exploring this, she will. If she is not, well, then nothing you can do will help or convince her. Instead it could become a stressful expectation in itself.

Why do we all have mayonnaise in our fridges instead of béarnaise sauce? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

After reading this I was at the local grocery store and counted 17 different kinds of bearnaise they sell. Sweden loves bearnaise.

Coming on Lemmy and complaining because there are too many Linux users is like going in to a brothel and complaining that there are too many hookers in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Only for a while, because I heard that it's the year of Linux on the desktop this year, so.. I guess the rest of the world will join us pretty soon.

Is there an historical reason why female formal dresses have a huge variety of styles compared to male ones where the only acceptable style is jacket with pants? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

True, I don't have to dress plain, but if clothes make no difference for her, I just wear what I feel most comfortable in. I know how I react when I see her in yoga pants, and I wish I had the option to affect her similarly through clothing.

Is there an historical reason why female formal dresses have a huge variety of styles compared to male ones where the only acceptable style is jacket with pants? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 33 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

As a man, I wish clothes would make me feel desirable. I have asked my girlfriend which clothes she would like to see me in, but she says it's not about the clothes. That it doesn't matter. It's more about what I do. So I just dress in plain, comfortable, practical clothes which makes me, well, practical. Useful. I often wish I had options to just be desired for my body, without the pressure to achieve this or that to be desirable. It's a source of sadness for me.

The Gnome Foundation Struggling to Stay Afloat in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Didn't they just get like a million dollars from the Sovereign Tech Fund?

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If Chat Control becomes reality... (lemmy.sdf.org)
 

... what should we do?
I guess it all depends on how it would be implemented, which is something I have a hard time imagining at this moment. How do you imagine day to day online life in a post-Chat Control EU world? Which ways of communicating would still be private? Is there anything we can do at this point to prepare for the worst outcome?

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Developing on Aeon with Distrobox (www.youtube.com)
 

A video from openSUSE Conference 2024 about using distrobox on openSUSE Aeon.

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About the bear... (lemmy.sdf.org)
 

So, I'm just assuming we've all seen the discussions about the bear.
Personally I feel that this is an opportunity for everyone to stop and think a little about it. The knee-jerk reaction from many men seems to be something along the lines of "You would choose a dangerous animal over me? That makes me feel bad about myself." which results in endless comments of the "Akchully... according to Bayes theorem you are much more likely to..." kind.
It should be clear by now that it doesn't lead to good places.
Maybe, and I'm open to being wrong, but maybe the real message is women saying: "We are scared of unknown men."
Then, if that is the message intended, what do we do next? Maybe the best thing is just to listen. To ask questions. What have you experienced to make you feel that way?
I firmly believe that the empathy we give lays a foundation for other people being willing to have empathy for the things we try to communicate.
It doesn't mean we should feel bad about ourselves, but just to recognize that someone is trying to say something, and it's not a technical discussion about bears.
What do you think?

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What could your distro learn from another distro? (lemmy.sdf.org)
 

For example, I'm using Debian, and I think we could learn a thing or two from Mint about how to make it "friendlier" for new users. I often see Mint recommended to new users, but rarely Debian, which has a goal to be "the universal operating system".
I also think we could learn website design from.. looks at notes ..everyone else.

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Parsing HTML with regex (lemmy.sdf.org)
 

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Zero-clause BSD License (lemmy.sdf.org)
 
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My Immortal (lemmy.sdf.org)
 
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Kein Lebendiges... (lemmy.sdf.org)
 

Whiteboard pen on random workplace whiteboard.

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There's a... (lemmy.sdf.org)
 

Felt tip pen on printer paper.

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The future of Linux (lemmy.sdf.org)
 

I'm not proposing anything here, I'm curious what you all think of the future.

What is your vision for what you want Linux to be?

I often read about wanting a smooth desktop experience like on MacOS, or having all the hardware and applications supported like Windows, or the convenience of Google products (mail, cloud storage, docs), etc.

A few years ago people were talking about convergence of phone/desktop, i.e. you plug your phone into a big screen and keyboard and it's now your desktop computer. That's one vision. ChromeOS has its "everything is in the cloud" vision. Stallman has his vision where no matter what it is, the most important part is that it's free software.

If you could decide the future of personal computing, what would it be?

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