My husband calls in the middle of this and I told him I usually don't see these sort of shit takes here and then I remember I'd been browsing ALL, for crying out loud. Go to see what fucking community it was... and it's memes! My bad even commenting here probably, but complaining that memes don't adequately capture the whole picture and may not be the best way to address the issue seems a little.. I dunno but something - here in the literal meme community.
Y'all ain't being thrown under the bus. My husband gets it. He is also an ally to women. But y'all ain't there "standing up in solidarity with women" when we are being molested, raped, or murdered. These things happen to women ALL THE GODDAMNED TIME. You weren't there in solidarity with me any of the times when I was actually harmed, but when I have something to say about how scary men can actually be, you are here to stand against me. Or at best, get me to think of your feelings instead of my own safety.
I would also prefer guys who are not rapists to stand up in solidarity with women against the rapists, instead of being thrown under the bus with the rest of the women that make men feel uncomfortable by reminding them of the things that actually happen in women's lives.
#NotAllMen
#ButWeDontKnowWhichOnes
If I'd ever been shot in the head I can only assume it wasn't a damn bear that did it. But sure. I should piss my pants at the sight of a wild animal. And pay no nevermind to the actually dangerous creature.
Like the bears ain't scary around here, but we do see alligators often. Still less scary than a random man in the dark when you're alone.