lazyneet

Ideally? A dominant femboy. More broadly, I'm looking for someone about 25-35 who appreciates BDSM dynamics, looks healthy, and doesn't mind shaving.

Neither have I! Have you had a good experience on the other services?

An hour by train gets me to a major city. However, the gay scene there is just a slightly scaled-up version of the backwoodsy culture I'm already in. Most guys are actual baby boomers. Most will say "Oh, you live in [town]? Why?" Fucking income levels, bro.

I feel you on the local kink scene. The couples here aren't even looking for thirds. People go to these meetings just to play pool, and they act like the sex drive has been sucked out of them by some kind of alien parasite. Tops act like bottoms, bottoms act like tops, everyone either has kids or is some kind of little. The only hard tops are bears. 🐻

There is a major city an hour away. Thanks for the list. Any reason you didn't include Scruff? Fetlife isn't for dating. Growlr and Barq aren't for me (not into bears, not a furry). Sniffies and Grindr are hookup sites, so that's kinda my last resort. I'm on Recon right now but it's all dead ends.

May I ask, why are you posting on the sissies board if you have so much internalized homophobia to call LGBT stuff "hype"?

I'm not transfem, I just crossdress sometimes. And also, I would sooner date a transgirl than a cis girl any day of the week. I'm not straight, and what you're saying only applies to straight people, and even then only the homophobic variety.

What standards? I literally just want a boy in the ballpark of my own age and interests. Should I really hook up with guys older than my parents for a few extra bucks? You must be into some hardcore humiliation.

I pulled them off to make Unix jewelry

Homie is a nice European guy who dabbles in software as I do. We met in the software (which I won't name because its community is very small). There are currently issues with its VR driver integration on Linux, so I played in desktop mode while he fondled my cute little avatar. There is a concept of "phantom sense" which some people experience. Different social VR clients have different degrees of sophistication in different areas. Some clients give you hand collision but no arm IK, some both, some neither. I wasn't using the actual VR part, so I stood there and talked to him while he had fun with me, similar to sex with a quadriplegic. :P

A friend felt me up in VR for a few hours. It was nice. We also talked about local/municipal LGBT groups, so I looked into it and there is a meeting this Friday.

I also created an account on Recon, and it seems like most of the users are over 60. -.- Reached out to 5 guys in my age range as the days ticked by. One of them responded, but he has a very standoffish personality that doesn't inspire confidence. Not sure if he'll want to meet or if me simply calling him a "good boy" was too much. I thought it was a site for men.

Nope!