bleph

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

He got to explain to his daughter and you got to explain to the comment section, circle of life

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago

Hey! No spoiler tag!? Some of us are still getting caught up on the last two seasons of reality

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Oh man this is so bad

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I don't agree with this in all cases.

True, parents usually have a deeply ingrained emotional need to protect and nurture their children but:

  • Not all parents do. Narcissists have children all the time. When they do, they cloak their emotional vampirism in 'love' like they do in all relationships.
  • Even parents with the best intentions have to work HARD not to pass on their generational traumas, abuses, and bad habits.
  • Only the child can truly know what will fulfill them as a person. Parents often substitute what they wanted for their younger selves for the child's best interest.

For those still thinking I have no idea what I am talking about and you and your parents are different... please look into "enmeshment" for your own sake

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Homie I'm sorry that happened.

You might want to do some research on:

  • verbal abuse
  • narcissistic parent
  • low self esteem

This is what I wish someone else told me.

Good luck on your journey