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[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I've found the number of the days feels much more than the years, and has greater impact, even though it's all equivalent.

 

So I have a widget in my phone's home screen tracking the days I have lived so far, to remind me of the time I have, and not to waste it.
I was sitting in the school dining hall, glancing at my phone to check the time and my friend remarked how it is weird that I'm counting the days I'm living.
I didn't say anything but I'm confused about how is it weird. We are 15~16 y/o.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I mean yes, kinda. Not having to care about somethings would be relieving.

 

I don't mean actively trying to commit suicide or being careless and stupid, you know, just feeling like if I woke up tomorrow and said to me, "Oh hey, like, you died last night" I wouldn't care.
Is this something serious? Should I seek help or consulting?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Never thought of it that way. I try to never judge people based off appearance, but I know people around me do.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'll also look into that. Thank you.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you have any recommendations on how I should work it out? Is there any measurements I need to take? Any websites?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Couple of weeks of looking silly sounds like torture for a person with already low self esteem :)

But I will try your advice if I didn't find anything better.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (9 children)

I'm very anxious of how I would look and don't know which style would fit me.

 

I'm male 16, living in Iran for clarification. (English is not my first language so sorry for any mistakes)

I have always struggled with my hair style and look, as I always cut my hair very short and uniform all around because of strict school dress code and policies.

But as I'm getting older I'm starting to want to improve myself and have better mental and physical health.

I've become self-conscious of face and looks after the pandemic specifically because I feel left out of many things compared to my peers. One of which is my hair style and cut.

I'm not sure how should I cut, style and maintain my hair. As I mentioned previously I always cut it short and uniform and I showered every 2-3 days, so I'd like to know how to maintain the hair.

But most importantly I don't know what to tell my barber?

Sorry for the rant and long post.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

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Wayland is more modern and actively receives updates and features.