Where scrappy Berlin shines as the A+ example

Some interesting points:

That may mean that Amsterdam residents will have to “wait a little longer” during rush hour, motorists may spend longer at red lights, and locals may have to accept that same-day delivery is a thing of the past.

Cyclists will also have to adapt. Next year, the city will introduce streets where faster cyclists, often on e-bikes and fatbikes, can choose between the motorway or the bike path. Those who choose the bike path must adhere to a speed limit of 20 kilometers per hour.

For a city moving in the opposite direction: Change to the mobility law - Berlin CDU wants to abolish priority for cyclists

I got hit with it just now and I was wondering what's going on. Here's the FAQ page: https://www.bahn.de/faq/6-warum-kann-ich-sparpreis-tickets-nicht-mit-lastschrift-bezahlen

Machine Translation:

Why can't I pay for saver fare tickets and a BahnCard 100 by direct debit?

There is currently an increase in fraudulent activity based on so-called phishing emails. As a precautionary measure for your protection, you cannot pay for Sparpreis tickets and a BahnCard 100 on this website and in the app using direct debit until further notice.

One now has to use PayPal or a MasterCard/VISA/etc-branded bank card.

It's no exaggeration that as someone raised on the island of Cyprus, I was astonished by how green the cities looked from above when I first travelled to Europe.

German source: https://www.tagesschau.de/wirtschaft/verbraucher/deutschlandticket-zusatzkosten-100.html

My first idea was to use the Gitea instance of the Free Software Foundation Europe, but T&Cs strongly encourage only projects with direct relation to the FSFE activities, so personal projects don't seem welcome.

The first-party Gitea platform seems to be in risk of becoming for-profit.

The 13th is exclusive to members of works councils. The 14th is the public portion of the conference.

Never before in my life have I encountered revolving doors so often as in Germany, and every time I have to use one, I wonder what's exactly the point.

Any ideas? The only think I can think of is that they slow down people on purpose, for crowd control.

Likely also for energy efficiency, but then the double doors system that I'm use to seems more efficient and probably cheaper than revolving doors.

Edit: And in the end, it's back to good old Fedora with Xfce. I guess I'm an old man, fixed in my ways. Haiku was interesting, but not nearly as stable as needed. OpenSuSE with Xfce was rough, it requires more polish.

I've been a Fedora Linux user for a million years by now, and I haven't touched any other OS (outside of Windows 10 and 11 at work).

Lately I got a refurbished ThinkCentre from ca 2018 (7th generation Intel i5, 16GB RAM, Intel HD 630). The initial idea was to use it as a media PC but the small form factor ended up not being small enough for my living room.

Now I'm thinking of using it as a desktop PC for a while, to see if it can make my laptop be a portable machine again instead of always plugged, always on. If it doesn't work out, I'll use it as a home server.

Since this is all an experiment, I want to give a new OS a shot before I settle for the familiar Fedora.

OpenSuSE is the first on my list, but even from the LiveUSB I noticed that the software selection is more limited than I'm used to.

I'm thinking of giving HaikuOS a shot as well.

What else has been going on in the world of free OSes since 2007? What's one that you are excited about?

In the more active version of this community, there's a long back and forth of posts between people who need to demonstrate to others that moving to Germany was the best thing they did in their life and anyone who doesn't feel the same is doing something wrong, and of course also the inverse - that moving to Germany was the worst choice they made and that everyone else is deflecting criticism.

I have to admit that I don't get it. To me it feels very obvious that living everywhere require making trade-offs and that the balance is very individual.

I don't see for example why I should gush about Germany at every turn or try to prove that someone is objectively wrong if they find Germany unliveable for themselves. At the same time, I don't understand why someone would find it sensible to tell me "leave if you don't like it" when I express a criticism. A place doesn't have to be perfect for me to want to live there. It just needs to give me a more favourable balance of pros to cons.

So, we are a younger community here, with less historical memes and reflexes. Perhaps that can be some sort of reality check for me. Do you feel strongly that moving here was great or horrible for you?

In support forums people naturally only share negative experiences because making a post to say "things worked out more or less as I expected them" is weird.

It does seem though that some people do not correct for that negativity bias, so I'll just share today's experience that left me thinking "boy, Deutsche Bahn definitely has a room to improve on this area but even if their processes are inefficient, they did offer us the solution we wanted!!11elf"

Me, a friend and a dog have a trip abroad coming up, and we have booked our two-way tickets through bahn.de but with paper tickets (because dog tickets were not normally available as eTickets when we first booked).

Very recently the situation changed so that we had to return to Germany on different dates and so we wanted to modify the booking so that one of the return Sparpreis fares and reservation are cancelled and refunded.

The bahn.de website would only allow us to cancel the entire journey (all individuals, both directions). That was somewhat inconvenient but taking a trip to the Central Station was also an opportunity to go out of the house a bit anyway.

At the Travel Centre, the worker initially told us that our request is possible, but then she noticed that the system wouldn't let her made the modification to the booking. At that point, after consulting with her more qualified co-workers, she let us know that we cannot modify the booking in such a targeted way because our booking through bahn.de was done through a different DB subsidiary than the subsidiary they work for. That is ridiculous.

The two workers then told us that what they can do for us is cancel the entire return leg of the journey (for all three) and they will post a refund request to the other subsidiary on our behalf. Then, we can on the spot re-book our new return tickets on our new desired dates. That works for us, but we did remark that someone without the financial buffer to wait for the refund while also buying new tickets would be under a lot of stress at that point.

During the rebooking process we did feel a bit left out of the loop because we expected that now we would be paying last-minute Flexpreis fares and there was a financial boundary we didn't want to cross, but at the end of the process we were offered Flexpreis fares at the price of our original Sparpreis tickets, so we did not suffer any financial consequences (although we expect that the refund will be reduced by 10 EUR for the administrative fee as the terms and conditions for Sparpreis tickets clearly mention). It appears that the Travel Centre had access to a contingent of cheaper Flexpreis tickets that aren't available on bahn.de - perhaps exactly for situations like ours.

The two workers were extremely patient with all our questions during the whole process since we wanted to get every detail correct during the destructive operation of cancelling the tickets and above all make sure that the dog doesn't end up "having" to take a different train if we couldn't rebook on the original connection. The main worker helping us even thanked us for our attention to details, because --I think-- she almost did make a mistake at one point during the rebooking but we caught it early (she didn't outright admit it though).

So, what's this pointless non-rant about? I guess it's that DB's corporate structure and processes are unnecessarily complicated and the people who are trying to help you have to jump through a lot of hoops to offer you the solution that they also recognise you should get.

We were lucky to come across two workers that took all the time necessary to get us to where we needed to be at the end and do so without directing their frustration at the utterly broken process towards us for asking them to carry out. Honestly, I don't think we'd have the patience for this if it was our job.

We still think that at every step of this non-ordeal, DB Corporate could have made very simple business decisions that could cut the effort required down.

And I still think that it's just weird to make posts to say how things are "mostly okay, but could be better".

In the absence of a wiki, here's my attempt to a step by step guide for a topic that concerns so many people, but it's needlessly overwhelming when you are in an acute crisis.

This is, to my knowledge, the fastest way to get insurance-approved psychotherapy in Germany.

1. Book your first talk session over the 116117 Appointment Service

• On the first time there, when asked Haben Sie einen Vermittlungscode? [Do you have a referral code?] select Nein [No]
• Next, when asked Wählen Sie die gewünschte Fachgruppe und ihre Postleitzahl aus [Select the desired department and its postal code] select Psychoth. Sprechstunde Erwachsene [Psychoth. Consultation hours for adults] or Psychoth. Sprechstunde Kinder & Jugendliche (bis 21 Jahre) [Psychoth. Consultation hours for children and young people (up to 21 years)] depending on what applies to you. For PLZ enter your local postcode. This is for sorting and limiting the results by location.
• In the next two fields enter and re-enter your email address and tick Ich bin gesetzlich krankenversichert. [I have statutory health insurance] if you are insured by one of Germany's public health insurance funds (such as TK, an AOK, a BKK etc).
• You will shortly receive an email titled Vermittlungscode für Ihre Terminbuchung [Referral code for your appointment booking] and a link back to the 116117 Appointment Service
• Visit the Appointment service again, but this time choose Ja [Yes] to the question about a referral code.
• Copy your referral code and enter your postcode and hit Termin suchen [Search for appointment]
• If asked to select the department again, select the same option as before, e.g. Psychoth. Sprechstunde Erwachsene
• Results should show up now, see step 2

2. Selecting your first therapist; no need to think about it too hard at this stage

The results you will see this first time are psychotherapists who can offer you this first talk session and a provision diagnosis/recommendations for further care. This availability does not imply that they can take you as a long-term patient so there's no reason to think too hard about who to choose.

• While you are in the results page, two icons at the top allow you to adjust the search radius (default +5km from the centre of your postcode) and availability (defaults to both mornings and afternoons all seven days of the week)

• In the list below, you can select upcoming appointments, separated by date and sorted by distance. Those can be on the same day or a couple of days in the future. You may select one appointment.

• It bears repeating that this choice shouldn't paralyse you. The truth is, it's very likely that you will only see this therapist once. The most important selection criterion at this stage is that you share a language that you both speak very well. The Appointment Service doesn't offer that information, so you will have to use an external website to check the resumes of the therapists you see.

A comprehensive (but not 100% complete) catalogue can be found at therapie.de. I suggest you look up all names you see in the Appointment Service there. One way to do it is to go to your preferred search engine and search for site:therapie.de FULLNAME.

If they have a profile there, under Stichpunkte [Key Points], look for Weitere Sprachen [Additional languages].

There's more information in therapie.de but it will only be really important later.

• If you have found a therapist that is available in the next days and you share a language, book the appointment for your next convenience. Don't hesitate to call sick at work if necessary, but if you need a doctor's note, be aware that therapists cannot write such notes, you should reach to your GP or other specialist that is aware of your mental health concerns.

• The appointment service asks you to directly reach out to the therapist and confirm your booked appointment. Some therapists have specific preferences, but most actually prefer email or leaving an answering machine message because they do not have secretaries so they can't answer calls most of the time.

3. At the first talk session

Congrats, you completed the most difficult part: starting this whole process.

• What you absolutely need to have with you is the health insurance card. Any additional documentation you have can help, but it's not necessary.
• At your first session, arrive 10 minutes early and wait to be allowed in. Most therapists work out of residential buildings and do not have secretaries, so if this is your first time visiting their practice, it might feel a bit confusing and unusual.
• After taking your health insurance card and asking you to fill the patient information sheet, the therapist will ask you what brings you there. Feel free to ask them how they want the information to be ordered. Personally, I follow the reverse chronological structure (a) immediate/most recent issue/acute complain, (b) life experiences in the last few years including all mental health episodes/crisis points, (c) general life situation, (d) goals you want to achieve if you can start therapy now
• At some point, the therapist will start asking you questions in order to establish one or more Verdachtsdiagnosen [provisional diagnoses]. If this is your first time in therapy, keep in mind that the therapist is not questioning you because they are suspicious of you, but because they need to tease apart similar diagnoses and also the severity of each one. If you don't understand their questions, ask for clarifications. It's especially important if both of you are talking in a language that is not either one's native one (e.g. if you both speak English as a second language).
• Near the end of those 50 minutes, the therapist will fill the very important form PTV 11 for you - this form contains your provisional diagnoses, the recommendations for further treatment (including which type(s) of psychotherapy can work for you), the level of urgency, the potential need for the involvement of other specialties such us your GP or a ~~psychotherapist~~ psychiatrist (if medication can be potentially helpful, for example), and a new referral code in case they cannot take you on as their patient. Ask the therapist to explain to you all items on that form. They will gladly do so in most cases, and even if they don't, remember that you only asked them to do their job, so you are not wrong for asking.
• It's very likely that they cannot take you as their patient at this point. If you are lucky and they have availability, you can consider having a small number of probationary sessions with them to see if you are a good match. It's extremely important that you are a match, so if it's not working out, do not hesitate to ask for a referral code in order to seek a new therapist. There's no reason to feel bad about doing that.
• If they tell you that they cannot take you on as a patient though, ask them to recommend you some of their colleagues who they think may be good matches based on your profile and diagnoses. Such targeted recommendations are more efficient and sometimes they can even direct you to colleagues who they know have availability or they are going to have availability in the next few weeks.

4. Booking the next session

Assuming that you need to find a new therapist after getting your provision diagnosis, you can start by directly calling or emailing the recommendations you got (if you did), and also use the new referral code on the appointment service. Therapie.de is going to be useful to you again, as it can also act like the yellow pages for your search.

This part of the process can be extremely short or extremely long, and it's important to keep it up. Here, you may consider an accountability structure, such as having a friend with you when you are calling/emailing, who can motivate you to keep going.

5. At the next few sessions

You now have a therapist with availability or who is going to have availability soon so they can offer you some probationary sessions until the availability is there.

Different psychotherapy approaches apply here and it's out of scope to discuss them, but before the fourth session you will need to carry out one last bit of paperwork for the health insurance.

• Your therapist will give you the form 22 Konsiliarbericht [consultation report discussing the indications for psychotherapy] which your GP has to fill and which an independent expert will evaluate before telling the health insurance a simple Yes or No to covering your therapy.
• With a medium degree of urgency, arrange to see your GP (or a new GP you locate now) and take this form with you. You will discuss all relevant points with your doctor and they will fill the form for you to return to the therapist.
• It's possible that the GP will order some lab tests, especially a thyroid functioning test. Abnormal thyroid functioning can cause mood disorders so at this stage the health care system wants to catch any possible physical causes before moving to the mental ones.
• Once completed, return the form to the therapist. They will handle further steps.
• Your therapist will let you know for how long and how often you will see each other. The length of treatment can be extended base on need, and a usual rhythm is meeting once weekly.
• It's harder to arrange all your appointments to be outside of work hours, so if your therapist can offer you a stable day and time week-in week-out, it's a good idea to talk with your employer about a permanent change in your work hours (if necessary).

I hope this can help anyone who stumbles upon it. Please mind that I can't help you further than that, because the above is my entire knowledge around the process. Feel free to point out any mistakes too.