You're right, belonging to a country that's committing genocide shouldn't stop you having fun.
As a Frenchman, I'm proud to know that we organized concerts and plays in Paris in the 40s to entertain the poor Nazi soldiers who had seen so many horrors.
I'm absolutely not into humiliation, dom/sub, etc. But we're in an open relationship, so she could find others partners for this kind of stuff.
And one fine morning, the other sites you visit regularly will apply a policy that has become the norm elsewhere.
No matter how they look, no matter what they wear, nobody wants to be sexually assaulted. No one ever does.
Typical scorpio humor
A friend of mine works in a fast-fashion boutique. I support child labor, because I know the consequences it could have for her if the clothes were more expensive.
There are different kinds of immortality.
They could be immortal like Deadpool. I don't think that's the most interesting option in a cosmic horror setting.
But why would the elder god grant the gift of healing? Why would he prevent the ravages of time? A thousand years from now, the immortal investigator will be no more than a surviving consciousness in a dried-up eye, enshrined in a relic, gazing out at the world for all eternity.
Or what if immortality was just the knowledge of a way to combat the ravages of time, but not violent death? What would be the price to pay? Absorbing the vital energy of other humans (or rarer, more dangerous entities) at regular intervals? Transfering their consciousness from other bodies ?
What would the investigators do to protect themselves physically and organize their survival? They'd need the means, the wealth, and reliable people at their service. How could they ensure their loyalty? How be sure they won't betray them to acquire their position or their secrets of eternel life?
At what point will they attract the attention of other dark cults or people acting to save humanity, like investigators or government agencies like Delta Green?
At some point, you could even start a new campaign in which their immortal characters are the hidden leaders of a dark cult that threatens the survival of mankind
I'd rather say that thanks to my other partners, we share a very special bond when she ask me to tell her stories about sex between men. (Lots of women watch gay porn, btw)
Of course, and I do. But condoms are designed for penetration, and sex is not all about penetration.
Indeed, as we are an open couple, it was negotiated.
The deal is to do my best to avoid getting an STI (condoms, vaccines, PrEP and testing), AND to do my best to protect her in case I'd be unknowningly infected.
As I have some risky practices with my other partners (unprotected oral sex), I don't pretend having safe sex.
Cute redhead spotted, easy choice.
The man is homophobic, but that's not the point.
The point is that jokes about him simulating a fellatio are also based on homophobic prejudice, like "look, the man knows how to suck a dick. He's so gay, lol".