DJDarren

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

All of this stuff makes me sad. As a long(ish)-time Apple user, it's been sad to see them go full throttle into hyper-capital mode. They're literally the wealthiest company on the planet because they've spent the past twenty years figuring out how to nickel and dime their customers. Hell, even when I bought my first MacBook back in '07, the guy in the Apple Store suggested getting the RAM upgrade elsewhere because Apple prices were ridiculous even then. Everyone knows they didn't go with soldered RAM and storage for the performance gains...

But they make incredible hardware, so I tolerate all that shit, making me complicit in the fuckery.

 

This is magnificent.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Gary Numan is two weeks older than Gary Oldman.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I’m impressed with John for not calling J&J a bunch of scheming, money grabbing cunts, to be honest. I couldn’t have been so restrained.

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An ADHD rant... (beehaw.org)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

This morning I'm mostly grumpy about my ADHD.

Firstly, I didn't get around to taking my pill until an hour after I got up, because I straight up forgot, despite remembering as I was pouring my coffee.

Then I just realised that I missed a Dr appointment yesterday, because it was made two fucking weeks ago, and despite being in the fucking calendar I can't be trusted to fucking remember anything.

I'm particularly angry about that, because it was to review (and hopefully increase) my meds...

I'm angry about that because it could have been a sodding phone appointment, but every drs surgery is run by old guys who are massively averse to anything beyond sitting in front of their patients so they can chastise them for being fat.

And I really want to practice the mindfulness I've been taught, to consider that this is a spiral, and that ultimately no harm has been done, I'll just be increasing (hopefully) my dosage a couple of weeks later.

But I'm frustrated that there's so much stuff I have to remember that I just can't. Other people manage to juggle all the needs on them, but I feel like I always fail, or at the very least that I can't be trusted to be consistent.

 

My wife showed me a TikTok last night of a woman talking about this app, and how useful she finds it. I've just installed it on my Mac, and yeah, it looks like it could be pretty helpful.

It's essentially just a frontend for Chat-GPT, but arranged in a way to be helpful to those of us with executive dysfunction issues.

I'm going to use it a bit over the next couple of weeks to see how good it turns out to be.

Let me know if you try it out. It's worth it for £1/$1.

(I'm not affiliated with the app in any way, just saw it and thought it might be useful to some people.)

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Howdy, fellow ADHDers. How the bloody hell do you get ANYTHING done at work?

My career history has been pretty varied, but I currently find myself as a quality and training manager at a firm that values neither. Because of this lack of defined interest from management above, much of my workload is self-led, and self motivated.

Which, of course, means that I do basically nothing.

I've been seeing a work coach for the past few months, who is helping to steer my mindset in the right direction, and ultimately it boils down to how easily distracted I am by things I deem more interesting than what I'm paid to do. Which is everything.

The one tool that works for me is a website blocker called Cold Turkey, which literally just forces me to not be able to access whichever websites I specify. It works brilliantly, because there's almost no way to override it, not easily anyway. However, the automated actions are part of the paid for app, which I can't currently afford, so I have to manually push the button that cuts me off from all those beautiful distractions on the internet.

The anxiety this spikes in me is way more than is healthy...

So what tools do you use to try and get shit done?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Justice sensitivity made driving very hard for me, before I figured out what was happening, and trained myself to be more chill behind the wheel.

I mean, you see some Grade A, top choice weaponry piloting their fucking Audis about on the roads, driving far too fast, sticking right on people's arses, flashing their lights, beeping their horns, and generally being copper-bottomed shitcunts. And that drives me fucking mad.

But I listened to a podcast a while ago, during which the host noted that one of the things we tend to do is get angry with others for breaking rules that we make for ourselves. My values when driving are not the same as someone else's. Someone else believes it's perfectly reasonable to flash their lights at someone who's only doing 90mph in the outside lane because they want to continue doing 110mph. Me getting angry at that person form my car isn't going to help them understand that they've broken one of my personal rules, so why bother?

This shift in mindset has really helped me to chill the fuck out when driving, which in turn has permeated into other areas of my life. People don't share 100% of my values, and that's mostly ok.

But I won't say that I don't get really pissy when I see injustice being perpetrated by the rich and powerful. How former Presidents and Prime Ministers keep getting away with all manner of fuckery because society is built for them. As a result, I've mostly taken to ignoring the news, because otherwise I'd just be angry all the fucking time.

 
 

Thought I'd see who's about and whether we could get a thread going on music recommendations from what we're jamming today.

I started off with The Presidents - Dune Buggy as an ear worm, which was very much agreeable.