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[–] [email protected] 380 points 1 year ago (21 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/reddit/comments/16tqihd/settings_updateschanges_to_ad_personalization/

Reddit just decided it was a good idea to REMOVE the option to disable ad personalisation. Good job u/spez. We know what you're doing.

[–] [email protected] 113 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Time for a new influx. Everyone still on reddit needs to advertise lemmy.

And not join-lemmy.org, that's confusing. Just pick one of the larger servers like lemm.ee or fedia.io and tell people to browse it and click "Sign Up" if they like it.

[–] [email protected] 53 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I'd recommend a smaller community to help spread the load. I originally signed up on .world but they were having some growing pains (And a disgruntled idiot ddosing them) so I moved to .ca which helped tremendously.

[–] [email protected] 44 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I really disagree. For learning lemmy for average people, big instance is best.

There is a point where people who stick around are likely to make a new "real" account on a different smaller server, after they know what they want to browse.

Basically big instances should be like training wheels.

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Neat, so they are monetising your activities on the plattform. Isn't that great?

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Corporate does corporate things.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This really doesn't sound legal.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Oh, okay. I had no idea. I was like "How far do I have to scroll to find out what reddit did this time?"

Wouldn't affect me anyway, because I use an ad blocker.

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[–] [email protected] 196 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (12 children)

I think fediverse people are wildly overestimating how much 99% of Reddit users care about this. The mod team on r/futurology (I'm one of them) set up a fediverse site just over a month ago (here you go - https://futurology.today/ ) It's been modestly successful so far, but the vast majority of subscribers seem to be coming from elsewhere in the fediverse, not migrants from Reddit.

This is despite the fact we've permanently stickied a post to the top of the sub. r/futurology has over 19 million subscribers, and yet the fediverse is only attracting a tiny trickle of them. I doubt most people on Reddit even know what the word fediverse means.

[–] [email protected] 46 points 1 year ago

For what it's worth, I was on Reddit for over a decade and I think I clicked on a stickied thread from any subreddit maybe twice in that whole time. I think a lot of people's eyes just automatically skip over them. Plus, stickied threads disappear under some sorting options. Posting the occasional meme about it might be more effective.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 year ago (2 children)

IIRC stickies are also excluded from feed once they get this attribute.

But yeah, we don't even understand what a barrier switching to fediverse sites is for regular joes, jemmas and jermas. Like, for many people the internet is suggested apps' feed and, rarely, their browser's default start page. They don't choose anything, and why would they? And here we are, challenging them to do something on intent while they are pretty happy with what they have now.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (1 children)

and why would they? ........... they are pretty happy with what they have now.

Exactly. Only a very small number of people are motivated as the pioneers who've setup the fediverse now are. Again looking at this through the lens of r/futurology & our fediverse site. Why would a user also want to go to a second version of the exact same thing, but way, way smaller.

My hunch is that long-term the fediverse will prosper. Reddit still isn't too bad even with these changes, at least not compared to what an absolute shithole Twitter has become.

But people who care about making it bigger, should be asking themselves hard questions - this meme comes across as very complacent & out of touch, if many people really believe the sentiments it's expressing.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

People who would leave a site like Reddit because of a principled stance often mistakenly believe that the rest of society cares as deeply as they. Spoiler: society mostly doesn't care; at least, not enough to go out of their way to change anything.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago

I'm technically from elsewhere in the fediverse, but I'm also a Reddit migrant (back in June). Thank you for setting the community up, I've missed it from Reddit days

[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Even the head mod of piracy subreddit was ousted from the subreddit for attempting to migrate the sub to a lemmy instance, and the redditors that remain there actually cheered! It's wild, you would expect pirates, who always at risk of having their subreddit shut down, would understand the need to migrate.

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[–] [email protected] 137 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (7 children)

Just want to say that every time Reddit does something shitty like this, Lemmy will get a boost. And with Lemmy constantly getting better (both community and platform), I’m willing to bet these boosts come with smaller user drop offs every time.

Which is to say, keep up the good work Reddit!

[–] [email protected] 83 points 1 year ago (14 children)

At this point (and with Sync, as I used for reddit), Lemmy is indistinguishable from my reddit browsing experience. Except on Lemmy I don't encounter constant hostility.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I don't encounter constant hostility.

That sounds like something one of you people would say. 🖕/s

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (6 children)

There are still few very niche/local communities here that I have seen, at least active ones. But that's only because of the much smaller user base

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The common reddit apps coming to lemmy also helps. People used to Boost, Sync, Infinity and others can finally browse lemmy on a known interface

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What did they do this time?

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You can no longer op-out for targeted advertising based on use habits (like if you visited canned sardines you could get ads about sardines on the canned sardines subreddit but not on cheatatmathhomework, now you could get ads about canned sardines in the math subreddit and about brilliant on the sardines one)

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[–] [email protected] 86 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (8 children)

All these users are suffering there but none of them seem to be considering…. Leaving

I saw one that said they would stay until Reddit charges a fee to use the site…like why are they staying??? JUST FUCKING LEAVE

One even said “there are no viable alternatives” when talking about Reddit, like excuse me what the fuck?

[–] [email protected] 71 points 1 year ago (8 children)

I'll probably get hate, but the content just isn't there. I tried using Lemmy as my main, but most of the communities I'd follow on Reddit just weren't on here, and if they were, they would have a couple hundred of subscribers at most, and there would be 7 different versions of the same community on different instances with no way to measure quality at first glance. Lemmy thrives for geeky hobbies that surround the FOSS space that gave birth to it, so communities like Linux or Unixporn have a strong enough presence, but for pretty much anything else it's just not there yet. Is this a negative feedback loop? Yes, but there isn't much to be done about it until shit REALLY hits the fan

PD: As an added, Lemmy can get incredibly circle-jerky at times, even more so than Reddit already is. Like seriously at times 90% of the content on my feed is just shitting on Reddit plebs

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[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 year ago (3 children)

They're used to what they know, and change - even for the better - seems wrong.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (2 children)

People forget how bad reddit was when we all moved from digg.com. It was bad. It would crash every other day.

Lemmy is far more mature than reddit was during the digg exodus.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm a trans woman here, and to be honest change of any kind is so scary that it is unbelievable. Like when I finally got approved for hormone, the prescription stayed at the pharmacy for like 2 or 3 weeks before eventually I decided to call a friend..

I knew that if I went myself I would probably just chicken out or maybe I'd pick them up and just put them aside somewhere, simply because I knew that there would be no going back. I didn't even want to go back, but the fact that I couldn't was still scary.

But my friend made me take them right then and there, as anybody would, as he always had a good ability to talk me out of my inhibitions.

It's been about a decade since then and lemme tell you, life is better on two legs than three.

Hell I had been wanting a Reddit alternative for the longest time because the place was a shit hole from the beginning, but traditional online forums are dead.

It took a Perma ban from the whole site for me to make the switch, it's going to come sooner or later, it's a ban happy website it wasn't even the first time.

Even then I felt like a criminal on the run.

PS: a bunch of right wing trolls have reported my account for threats of violence, simply because I said something about Star Wars that they didn't like.

I got a permaban, and had to write an appeal letter to get them to look at what I actually posted to realize that there was not even the slightest hint of a threat there.

Ironically the second time was for abusing the report button, something that's not even listed in their terms of service, because that was easier than actually looking at all of the bigoted things that I reported. I try appealing that too, but never got a response

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 year ago (11 children)

All these users are suffering there but none of them seem to be considering…. Leaving

I think because they are uninformed. They are looking for alternatives, and don't know about Lemmy, or don't understand Lemmy, etc.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

these people are the same group of people that won't leave twitter. some people just live to be miserable and complain about things one hundred percent in their control.

it's insane and i can't wrap my brain around it.

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[–] [email protected] 74 points 1 year ago (32 children)

Americans confused at what month "27" is

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m American and confused by what the 2023 day is. YYYYMMDD ftw

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[–] [email protected] 63 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Just migrated from Reddit to Lemmy. This was my final straw.

[–] [email protected] 59 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I missed it this time. I left in June.

Care to summarize what happened?

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[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Don't forget to donate to your chosen instances to keep them going.
Smiling

[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 year ago

Self-hosters donating to themselves

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 year ago (12 children)

When Boost for Lemmy went live, I didn't even hesitate to uninstall Reddit.

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[–] [email protected] 41 points 1 year ago (10 children)
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[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Oh wow. I booted up Boost this morning as usual, scrolled for 10-15 minutes, and didn't realize I was on Lemmy instead of Reddit until this post.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I assure you that the average userbase doesn't care about such things. (Lmao - Privacy? I got nothing to hide -type of people) As long as functionality doesn't break massively there won't be an exodus.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Apparently American Reddit has been plastered with ads from a billion-dollar Evangelical Christian campaign for months and Jewish, LGBT amd atheist users have been especially targeted

Religion and Politics were categories you could not opt out of

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago

I find it fascinating that their own app can be so horrible when there are so many amazing alternatives that exist(ed)

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Unfortunately, reddit has been too long and entrenched in society to "remove" it from our browsers. It is very different from Twitter or another social network. Lemmy is a great project. I hope it works and establishes itself as a real alternative, but it still has a long way to go. Unfortunately, the Reddit/Lemmy format is resource intensive, and that's the problem with a service like this.

It's my simple opinion. I support any fediverso project, but reddit, today I think it is irreplaceable.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago

As I removed everything from all my Reddit accounts and deleted them, except my porn account for some nieche fetishes, I don’t care. Let it die and save the porn.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (9 children)

50-50 shot lemmy devolves into a fascist hellsite

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Absolutely, though to be fair I trust the anonymous random people running the thousands of fediverse instances and communities far less than a legitimate, traceable company that gets third party audited and has to, at least, follow national laws.

I don't love Reddit's owners obviously, but yeah. When it comes to privacy, I don't have any misconceptions about Lemmy being private in the least. Unfortunately :-(

[–] [email protected] 39 points 1 year ago (7 children)

The difference is advertising. Lemmy has no incentive to sell you out. A company like reddit will squeeze every legal penny out of your personal info and then some more illegally if they think they can get away with it.

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