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[–] [email protected] 1 points 23 hours ago

Coffee black if I'm making it at home with my fancy stuff. Otherwise I'll put cream and sugar in it. I usually drink tea without anything in it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Right in the face

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

With another half-litre chaser.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Masala chai with as much sugar as can be dissolved into the water. 4 spoonfuls for a large teacup, 3 for a normal size teacup.

Sometimes a splash of milk.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

Drink both strong and black. No sugar. Tea must be hot, coffee can be iced, but only in summer.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Only badass and above is acceptable :)

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

I passionately agree with you. All others are an insult to the King

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Let me introduce you to puerh. It’s way darker than normal tea, but it won’t taste bitter unless you make it as black as coffee.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Or you can go for Liubao which doesn't get bitter no matter how strong you make it or how long you boil it. Or there's Hunan's Anhua Gold Flower Black Tea that's like a pu'er with more umami in the aftertaste.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

Tea: No sugar, no milk, no water, and no tea. Cup optional. (I don't drink tea)
Coffee: Regular black is fine. Sometimes I'll order a cappuccino with two sugars, but it's rare.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yorkshire Gold, two sugars, small splash of evaporated milk.

I'm mostly a tea gal but if I'm doing coffee, it's typically an oat milk cortado with a touch of brown sugar.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago

Yorkshire gold? You're my kind of woman

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

Tea: small amount of milk, strong AF. Coffee: black, 2 sweetners

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Coffee: Typically Nathan Explosion style (blacker than the blackest black, times infinity), sometimes with a nip of whiskey if I'm having it to stay out late.

Tea: either just water and leaves or one milk, no sugar, depending on my mood/the tea

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Yerba mate: coarse milling, radioactive green. 75°C water. No sugar; sometimes I add some peppermint, but that's it.

Coffee, homemade: black, no sugar. Neither too strong nor too weak, at least for local standards.

Coffee, when going out: either cheap coffee with a small drop of milk, or a good espresso or machiato. In uni times I used to drink half-and-half, with cinnamon and brown sugar, but that's because my former uni's cafeteria's coffee was awful.

I barely drink tea proper (Camelia sinensis), but I'm often drinking other teas - hibiscus, ginger, chamomile, peppermint.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I make concoctions. I like ginger tea with either ginger honey crystals or another Chai tea bag, a bit of creamer and sugar. I don't like coffee, but I was really into dunkachinos which I found out was just coffee and chocolate. So I do espresso and hot chocolate. I also put ginger in that. Fruit teas are sugar only.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Hot coffee, Cafe con leche unsweetened or barely sweet (espresso with lots of milk)

Cold coffee, cold brew on ice with a little milk and pretty sweet

Hot black tea with a little milk, or spiced chai with milk and sugar

Cold black tea just ice or mixed with lemonade

Hot green tea nothing just tea

Cold green tea with nothing but ice

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

Tea, small amount of milk, needs to be well brewed and strong. Coffee, preferably weak as F with as much milk as possible to overpower the coffee (i'm not a fan) :)

No sugar no sweeteners in either.

Tea prioritsed over coffee.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Working on weaning out caffeine. My current coffee blend is mostly decaf with a few beans thrown in from my last caffeinated batch, ground myself and cold brewed for 13-16 hours, taken just with a splash of half and half cream and no sweetener.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

At home, the plain black Mokkamaster does the trick, some times with a little vanilla or hazelnut to change it up between cups. At work, a double espresso with a ristretto and some water, so basically a strong americano for every cup through the day.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Drip I take with no sweetener, espresso I'll generally sweeten a little

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Coffe: black.
Tea: can be black or green, usually a loose leaf mixed tea from a tea house.

Usually it's tea, typically about 1l / day, but whatever it is, it's with no milk or sugar.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

A while back a freind regifted me a coffee frother she had never used.

I put the milk in the microwave for 30 seconds and froth it. I like to add it on top after pouring the coffee.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Coffee - Milked the fuck up with loads of sugar and chocolate.

Tea - Milked the fuck up with tons of sugar.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago

I basically want chocolate milk/hot chocolate flavored wuth coffee.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Black coffee, medium to light roast.

Tea with a touch of honey, maybe a bit of milk or cream depending on the flavor.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Med-light roast whole beans, freshly ground. Brewed via Aeropress. Add ~1/2 tsp Sweet 'N Low, no creamer. Maybe a dash of ceylon cinnamon or a few drops of vanilla or almond extract if the beans are boring.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Dark roast, half a packet of sugar, a lil bit of milk

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Tea: lemon and honey.

Coffee: sugar and cream.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Strong and milky, like my women.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

Coffee: Like I take my men: strong, black, and hot. (OK, OK, I know, old joke. Strong, hot, no milk, no sugar.) Tea: strong, hot, no milk, no sugar.

I also rarely, if ever, drink mass-market versions of either; essentially only if I'm forced to. I get my coffees and teas directly from estates and sometimes individual farms when I can wrangle it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Tea: depending on the type of tea. Some really good teas I can drink without sugar, but the stuff from the supermarket? Yeah, add 1 or 2 lumps of sugar for me, please. And some brands of teas I just completely skip (No thank you to Aldi thee, Jumbo huismerk thee, LaPlace thee and Lipton thee)

Coffee: I prefer cappuccino. I need some milk or milk-substitute in my coffee, otherwise it's too bitter.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

There's a little trick you can do that will improve even crud like Tetley's or Red Rose or their ilk into something approaching drinkability.

Wash the tea.

Put in the bag (the real crud's ALWAYS in a bag!). Pour scalding hot water on top. Swish it around a few seconds. Throw it (the liquor) away. Then brew as normal. It won't be great tea by any means, but it will be drinkable, if only just.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I'll try this some time. Thanks for the tip.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

I drink it?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

With coffee, i usually have it with a teaspoon of sugar in a big mug, but sometimes i add some sweetened condensed instead of sugar. Same for black tea and chrysanthemum. For chamomile and oolong, i have it without adding anything, since i usually take chamomile at night and treat it as a flavored water. For oolong the taste is strong enough as it is.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Tea: Black or green.

Yerba Mate: Playadito at 60-70C

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Coffee is a delivery system for cream and sugar.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Tea: ginger and honey

Coffee: oat milk and brown sugar I love coffee in the morning so much that even preparing the boiler and filter gets me kickstarted haha.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

With tea its usually a black or green tea. Black tea sometimes with a little bit of milk and green tea with some fresh lemon and ginger.

I prepare my coffee with a Moka Pot and add hot milk(1:1) sometimes with foam. If i don't have the time or the necessary tools I'll just put 3 spoons of coffee in a cup, pour hot water over it, stir it and drink it black.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

Coffee: decaf, no milk, no sugar sometimes honey

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