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What would be the acceptability of this in your workplace? For context, which country and industry are you in?

I guess I'm mainly thinking about professional jobs, but interested to hear from. I think in France it would be quite common to have a glass of wine, even at a work canteen or so. But in the UK it seems like people would think that was a problem, and in a lot of cases you'd be in violation of something at work.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Work from home, drink as much as I like

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 23 hours ago

I'm not into overdosing into anything, so it's all about balance, which means I usually stick with a beer a day at most

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

Switzerland, IT

Depends on the team. It's not that uncommon in some occasions, for example on a friday, to have a beer when eating lunch in a restaurant.

Very common is the "Apero"-culture. Small festivities after work to celebrate something. Snacks, beer and wine are part of it. Sometimes this can also be during the day and people will continue to work after.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

I'd regularly have a pint or two (no more than three) with my boss on Wednesday lunchtimes! And, in another workplace, while I was a young'un throwing an almighty tantrum, I spent a month having four double vodkas for lunch most days. Stunned I wasn't fired, honestly. (UK)

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

I am a winemaker in the Pacific Northwest. I sample wines a lot throughout the day but mostly I spit, I still catch a bit of a buzz sometimes though. Sometimes during harvest when we're working long days outside I'll have a beer or two. We celebrate the start and end of harvest with champagne. When I work wine tasting events I look forward to trying wines from other local wineries, I usually have a fair number of tastes throughout the event. I think I actually drink more at work than I do at home.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I work in healthcare in the UK. I don't even drink on week nights let alone over lunch. I agree over here drinking at lunch would probably be seen as a problem.

I think a big part of that is the UK binge drink culture. Most people over here drink a lot in one go to get drunk as the goal.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Off topic but your name is amazing

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

After all, you can't drink all day if you don't start in the morning.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

You can't start drinking if you never stop

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago

That's the spirit!

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

Cant agree more.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes, I drink almost exclusively at lunch.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I find a lot of benefits to this schedule too. Mainly, less likely to over indulge, and less impact on sleep quality.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 20 hours ago

Me, I just like beer better than wine, and the kind of things I tend to eat for lunch pair better with beer.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 12 hours ago

No. My job depends on results. Alcohol affects my production. Therefore, drinking on workdays is a very dumb thing for me to do.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In the U.S. this has changed a bit over the years. I believe, based on watching Mad Men, that it used to be super common for people to drink and have alcohol at work, let alone at lunch. A friend of my dad used to take his Playboy subscription at work because he didn't want it to be available to his kids. Try that these days!

In the 90s, I worked at a job were it wasn't uncommon to have a drink with lunch, especially when we were out with our Managing Director.

In the 2000s it was essentially something you'd get fired for.

Now? My current job (IT in the aviation industry) wouldn't allow it but there are apparently a lot of start ups that bring beer around to people's desks on Friday afternoons.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It was for the articles!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

I work in manufacturing in America. There's NO FUCKING WAY. You'd be fired immediately if caught. I don't even think the union would try to back you up. It's simply too dangerous of an environment. However, reeking of booze from the night before? Apparently totally fine.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

US IT. They provide us with drinks at lunch anytime there’s a company wide meeting.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

Sure, if I'm meeting a vendor for lunch it would be normal. If I'm just sitting at my desk working through lunch like I typically do, it would be really strange to have a drink and I'd probably be reprimanded.

USA, IT worker

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

I'm in the UK. I worked at a couple of places in the '90s - sysadmin and IT trainer - where this was considered perfectly acceptable at the time, but I definitely wouldn't now. I'm no longer in IT at all, but I don't think that it is seen as acceptable very widely anywhere now.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 20 hours ago

Forbidden by company policy. Zero tolerance for drugs or alcohol. Federally regulated manufacturing in the US.

I have worked in 6 different manufacturing companies in the US and none of them allow it. Must be a safety and liability thing.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Most places have an alcohol restriction on premises. But lunch time is your own time. Bars near the auto plants used to have 30+ beers already opened so the workers could come in slap their money down and get right to drinking at 12:05. I worked at one place where boss bought beer and pizza for the whole company for doing well that week. I think shop guys had 1 beer restrictions, for "safety". Us office guys could have more. 2 beer and pizza makes it hard to stay awake at the computer though.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

Depends on what the boss does, but if I'm the most senior person, and especially if it's a conference or lunch meeting with someone I know well, and the itemized bill isn't required for reimbursement, sure thing. Have many times.

Some older companies have policies in place that define appropriate circumstances under which staff can have 1 drink during duty hours and it not be an actionable offense.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

In my previous job I had to travel very often to customer's sites or or other offices

The ones in Germany drank regularly during lunch time. I never felt comfortable to do it since my job was very technical. In one office they even had a fridge full of beers and wines that you could grab freely. I never saw anybody drinking at the office tho

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

I worked in 3 different European countries, in both academia and industry,

While not being common, it's not that rare to take a glass of wine or beer when doing a real-restaurant for lunch break at work. At least for people working in office.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

US, audit & tax

Once in a blue moon, on a really nice day, we would get a patio table and have a margarita with lunch. Only if it was a slow work day, like with nothing but webinars scheduled for the afternoon (as attendees, not presenters).

It was not uncommon to see beer in the office fridge during tax season because those folks would be pulling 15+ hour days for pretty much 3 months straight.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

I'm currently in a production support role in the US, and I'd never consider it: I work too closely with production operatives that they'd smell it on me. My last couple of role involved programming automated forklifts, so it was strictly forbidden.

Ten years ago I was doing an internship an engineering firm in the UK, and a few times we went out for a beer with lunch. It wasn't exactly common, but it did happen.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

IT related to ships and geophysical surveys.

For larger projects, as long as the heavy duty work is out of the way, grabbing a beer or two with the meal is pretty common.

Related story:
We were mobilizing for a project, and I had a real headscratcher of a problem. Work day was over, and we all headed back to the hotel for the evening. We all met at dinner, and I called it "a night" early as I excused myself after a few beers to head back ip to my room.

Project manager, who knew of the issues I was having with the system said something along the lines of the issues being serious when it caused me to be the first to leave the bar. "Nah, I'm gonna VPN in and try something I just thought of"

Yup, turns out it was abgood idea: Misconfigured soanning tree was the root cause, and the fix took 5 minutes. It was fun rejoining the others and Announce that the system would be ready the next day after some cleanup, and all that was missing was a few beers. The Ballmer Peak is real.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That sounds like a really cool job!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

I like it. It involves a varied combination of servers, network, robotics, travel, and ships.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

If my boss gets a drink and I want a drink, it's fair game. Otherwise no.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

I personally don't drink, but my team is all WFH, so I don't doubt at all that there are some that have a beer or two with lunch. Or a glass of wine.

When we have in person events, there's a pretty strict no drinking culture, but once the event is over, usually people will shuffle off to the nearest pub or bar or we've done a board game cafe with booze before.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

Don't drink.
Sometimes the colleagues crack open a cold ome near the end on a Friday or we chill in an office corner as a sort of after-work "party"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

My current job is WFH, so no one would know or care. But I previously had a safety sensitive job that held us to either the same or higher standards as the federal Dept of Transportation. They were so strict that we had posters advising against drinking kombucha at lunch or using pure CBD products at all. My SO at the time had a CBD balm that I would put gloves on to help apply because I didn't want to risk it. The company said that while these products were likely fine, if an accident or something happened and we had to then take a drug test, any registerable amount would be grounds for immediate dismissal with no recourse.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

I had a bottle of hot saki at a restaurant that we walked to last month.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

US Freelance Video Editor. Extremely common, some of us even had mini bars in their offices. WFH changed all that though.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Product designer/engineer in the US

If the team is going out to lunch to celebrate a special occasion, then a single drink has always been fine in the teams I worked with. I don't partake anymore because it makes me really sleepy in the afternoon.

I worked at one company that hosted a weekly happy hour. I was one of the employees who took turns setting up the kegs in the common room, and pouring drinks during the event. That was a fun place. The extra social time really improved some working relationships. And we got a surprising amount of productive work done just by talking for an hour or two while standing around sipping microbrews and wine.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

We have alcohol at my workplace so this happens sometimes. Just be responsible.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Chef/owner & I've stayed away from the 'glass of wine when you cook' because I have grown attached to my fingers. I like to relax when I drink, so it's either when I'm off or after we shut down.

Currently in Spain, probably going to end my career here and drinking is very different from where I grew up.

Lunch is at 9am, and it's common to see people having a beer (followed by coffee)

People tend to nurse drinks, it's a more social thing, and if they get buzzed it's usually low key and don't get too sloppy- however I've seen holiday parties for businesses get everyone wasted....and fiestas all bets are off, lol.

I love it here.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago

tostada and coffee at 730-8 lunch 9-11 comida (brunch) 14h marinda (sp?) 17-18h (coffee, sweet cake or pastry) dinner 21-23h

summertime we have reservations up until 23h for dinner

most nights in the summer are English/n. Europeans 19h-21h, then the Spanish hit us. good times....it's an American BBQ joint so it will be interesting to see how the boycotts suss out....

seriously fuck trump

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