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[–] [email protected] 66 points 10 months ago (5 children)

Didn't leave the house.

I worked retail/food service for years. Going to places on Christmas tells employers that they need to be open those days, and that their employees don't need the day off.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Frankly i find it inconsiderate to the social contract to go out on holidays, and sometimes around them.

Its frankly why i always found Black Friday and the "scope creep" of this festival of consumerism partially so repulsive. I mean its repulsive on its own just in the way people act, but doubly so in that it runs right through a national holiday.

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

To be fair, not everyone celebrates Christmas. As long as employees are getting a certain number of holidays in a year for whatever tradition they follow, I think it's fine to be open on Christmas. But not to force anyone to work on Christmas, only if the business can sustain itself on non-Christmas-celebrating staff

[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago (1 children)

that's fair, but my experience was unfortunately the latter. Retail was very much "we need you to work today", and any response other than "okay" was pretty much a reprimand. "Show up or don't show up again" was said to me when I wanted to have Thanksgiving with family. Now I avoid anything non-essential on holidays.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (8 children)

It's kind of a paradox really because people can't go to the establishments if they're not open. So how would the owners know whether or not people want to go there if they simply stay closed?

[–] [email protected] 18 points 10 months ago (4 children)

Other way around. Places default to open, then if people don't come, they stay closed next year as acost saving measure.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

That’s how it works already, Chinese culture doesn’t care about Christmas, they make great money being open for their culture and others that don’t celebrate Christmas and want a normal day.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

I love having Chinese coworkers because they will work extra shifts during Thanksgiving and Christmas. But it's my responsibility to work extra shifts for Chinese new year.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 10 months ago

Only left the house to help my neighbor look for her escaped cat. It turned out to be in their basement. The cat gets it.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 10 months ago (2 children)

After many years of shitty Christmases .... I refuse to leave the house on Christmas Day or any time from Christmas to New Years.

Y'all crazy and insane out there and I don't want to meet, talk or see any of you in person during this time of year.

I've prepared my home base and I can live here with enough food for a month and enough entertainment for two lifetimes.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 10 months ago

Ooh I like your style. I will hunt you down and I will inflict my friendship upon you.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Sadly I have to venture forth tomorrow or the day after for sustenance. Other than that I'm with you, people are nuts this time of year and are best avoided.

What entertainment are you enjoying? I started watching "For All Mankind" this week. So I'd like to get all caught up on that.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Went to a del taco today for breakfast. Tipped the guy $20 for working today. Went to a bar this evening for a beer and also tipped the bartender $20.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

The real Santa

[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago (1 children)

haven't left the house all day πŸ’…

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Saaaame. I just want someone to poke their periscope out there and tell me what's going on please.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah I went out, pretty much everything was open except for the street vendor I normally get my oranges from. I guess Christmas just isn't as big a deal in China as it was back home - still saw Christmas decorations at a handful of stores and restaurants - my tea said on the cup "Merry Christmas" and had an explanation of what Christmas was on the back lol

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (3 children)

Seriously, how many of us lemmies live somewhere else? I'm in Rabat atm, there's zero assassinated pine trees covered in brightly coloured plastic shit in sight. And everything is Business As Usual here.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago (3 children)

live somewhere else?

somewhere else in regards to where?

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 10 months ago (3 children)

Um, yesterday was Christmas day mate, get with it

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Um, I posted that 6 hours ago which was yesterday in my time zone too mate, Get with it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

Christmas day is really more of a state of mind.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Left the house to drive the partner to her parents house for some time with them.

Bars were open. I feel sorry for the people who go to bars Christmas day and feel even sorrier for the staff who have to work Christmas day.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

I was a bartender last year. I worked every holiday. It didn't phase me because I had nothing else to do. But if I had a life I would definitely make sure I didn't work holidays one way or another, either demand it of my boss or get an entirely different job that respects humans.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I salute the work you did. Service jobs should come with military-style awards. A Purple Heart for Bravery in the Face of a Drunk Karen, for example.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Three slaps per year, doled out as you see fit.

People would get real fuckin' polite in December and January. Start-of-year, everybody's got a full magazine. End-of-year... use it or lose it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Instead we get minimum wage. And gratuity from appreciative customers like you. Thank you for your appreciation.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Did not leave the house. Did not want to give bosses that forced close to minimum wage employees incentive to continue to do so. I believe minimum wage should at least double on holidays.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Didnt leave the house today. I work retail, so Im glad to not be at work today, since were closed.

But my old man did go pick up some burgers from Jack in the Box, so apparently they were open. I hate people going out shopping on a holiday like this, as a retail worker. It means theres incentive for the companies to open during holidays, regardless of how morally correct it is. Having said that, Im thankful Jack was open, as were having a pretty rough Christmas this year, and most of my family couldnt make it due to sickness and a death. This was our Christmas dinner that my dad and I shared.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago

I took the dogs for a walk. Gas stations and 24/7 pubs were open.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

Christmas day was yesterday for me.

I only left home for church. After that, it was back home to have lunch with family, then hosting Christmas dinner for a bunch of people.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

I did not leave the house, but I was very grateful that there was a sushi restaurant open for delivery because my SO ate all the sushi leftover from last night which I had been looking forward to sharing. Gave a big tip, of course.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

No because I have COVID :(.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

Oof, get well soon!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago

Husband and I stayed in all day. We watched football and played video games. I made waffles for breakfast and spaghetti for dinner. Neighbor gave us a box of chocolates so we had some of that too.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

That was yesterday in my timezone. Yes, I spent Christmas Day with family a significant drive away.

Almost none; gas stations, some restaurants and dairies. Most were closed.

Thankfully we had rain all day, a nice change back to traditional rainy and humid Christmas Days.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

At the risk of sounding stupid, what are dairies?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

I stayed at home and cooked a turkey. I know the grocery store was open till 2pm (normally closes at 10pm) because sibling worked today. I know wawa was closed, they had signs.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

Christmas is inside time. It's -12c outside and snowing.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

Stayed home most of the day except to go to my daughter's house for supper, about a 1/4 mile away.

The closest business that would have been open today out here would have been the gas station about 16 miles (25km) away.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

Does going into my garage workshop count? If not, then no. I didn't have anywhere to be and it was really cold out.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Life is going as normal as if there's no such thing as Christmas. In fact, the schools are open too, some folks are even taking their midterm exams.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (7 children)

Wow, which country are you in?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

We took the dogs to run around at a park before the festivities. We were definitely the only people there.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

Left the house for a walk in the rain with the wife. Lots of mountain bikers were out!

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