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[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I was listening to a self help book about bad habits and it keeps going on about video games=time waste, don't do it. Honestly that's bullshit and I'm sick of that viewpoint. What if that's what I like to do in my down time to relax? Why is playing video games a bad habit but watching a movie isn't?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago

Well, the author probably grew up and was socialized in a world that had books/movies, but not video games, so...

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago

What downtime things did it say aren't a time waste?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Because once you play enough video games, you will develop the urge to commit a shooting /s

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Their point might have been to do something constructive. To get a skill out of it you can use to provide for yourself if need be. So they're probably thinking of carpentry, pottery, gardening or other vocational hobbies....

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Balance. It's perfectly fine to realize when you're too far in either direction.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

Exactly, just got to find that balance. Like slacking off and playing games at work.
Or my fav: playing complex games that are basically a second job!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

For you to not live in a world where you're being inundated by all of the collective human stressors every day?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

My experience with stressors is that they are relative, and they scale to fit the available worry. I'm stressed about work, but from personal experience I have been just as stressed about being unemployed or about school. Therefore the stress is the common thing - if it is common then adjusting to the stress is more productive than avoiding the stresses.

Hence meditation, exercise, meaningful relationships, etc.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

It wants to stop staring at a screen all day and go outside.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

What hustle culture does to your mind

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

After they've taken care of shelter and clothing people tend to work until they can feed themselves and then stop working for a while