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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago (13 children)

Americans assuming everyone else is from America and knows everything about America.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

The American mind cannot comprehend this.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Idk I've had the impression that this is not as bad here as it was on the place that shall not be named.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

It's better than on Reddit, which was usually justified by "it's an American site", but it's definitely still here and annoying on Lemmy.world.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

It is. I still wish it "Politics" would default to WorldPolitics" and USPolitics was it's own thing, instead of the other version where Politics and News is US stuff and the general topics need the "World" prefix.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

Lemmy.ml has US Politics as a comm, and World News as a comm.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

You should ask your instance about that, bc right now it's just mirroring the US-centric reddit trend where the politics community is all just US-specific politics. Same for news, etc.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

I’ve done my best to include Β°C conversions of all my Β°F. What more do you people want.


Since we’re here, I had covid one time and had to shop online for stuff that came in ounces, quarts, pints, and liters, and even without brain fog, I can tell you that comparing prices and sizes against apples, oranges, and furlongs (β…› miles (β‰ˆβ…• km (but this is an argumentum ad absurdum))) is the most unsatisfying garbage that has ever been.

In conclusion, ~~what if~~ God ~~did~~ bless America ~~?~~

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I'de love to see a bit more discussions about Linux.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Lol fuck off.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

Right? People hardly mention Linux 'round here lol

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I think a large portion of lemmy is too focused on making lemmy popular. Fake engagement and posts that nobody cares about don’t create engagement. Instead, more focus on just enjoying lemmy would ironically lead to better posts and discussion. Likewise, people post the same articles to the same communities seeking engagement. It leads to dupilication which waters down the discussion, ironically, also leading to less engagement. I think federalised communities, as has been discussed would be a good solution. However, it strikes me that they don’t want to miss out on karma, for some reason. So, short term gain, for long term hassle of multiple posts. If some of the most prolific posters posted to the most relevant community and cross posted elsewhere, then maybe communities would coalesce more.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

An example of this that really bothers me: I joined several gaming munis because I like to talk about games. But there are people out there who feel that a gaming muni should be about the games industry, and so those munis are just a constant stream of gaming news articles, patch notes, and trailers. Mostly with completely barren comment sections. What I wanted was the social experience of chatting with people about games. I don't care about (as a random example) the latest Helldivers 2 patch notes.

I think less of an emphasis on having a steady stream of content and more on only posting something that you believe is worthy of discussion would be so much better. If people want to see literally every rockpapershotgun article, they can subscribe to their RSS feed.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

Yeah. I find that a lot of comment sections are rather empty and some people who are there are really bad at discussions.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (5 children)

This will likely be an unpopular opinion here, but if you thought reddit was politically opinionated, holy hell Lemmy is 1000 times worse. I'm left leaning myself, but the majority of the posters here make me look like a moderate. There are even times when the rhetoric I see is approaching the level of toxicity I see from right-wing internet goers.

Fewer political in general is what I want, but it would be nice to see some actual diversity of opinions. Echo chambers are good for absolutely no one.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Some of the rhetoric here after the attempted assassination on Trump was really terrible.

I've been a big left winger for years but I still think wishing death on others who are politically opposed to you is absolutely awful. These are people who who claim to be on the moral high ground but who are apparently quite unaware of how hypocritical they sound.

Can you imagine what these same people would be saying had the assassination been made on Biden instead of Trump?

Sometimes it's quite apparent how little there is that seperates us from the animals.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

I feel most of the extreme views can be moderated with a ban list of several instances (notably hexbear and lemmygrad) and several individuals. The toxicity of the discourse lowers drastically.

I tend to tag users that seem disingenuously pushing agendas, and if they persist in that consequently they go on the ban list.

That improved my experience by miles and made clear that the group of people doing this is actually quite marginal.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

I absolutely feel the same. Notice how you had to point out you're left leaning? That just shows how militant and aggressive Lemmy can be that you have to state that just in case.

I like Lemmy, I just wish it was a little less stubborn (and I say that as a left leaning person).

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

I wish we could have a higher level of discussion, with an expectation that claims should be supported by evidence. Less ad hominem and conspiracy theories about everyone with a different point of view being a bot. And much less "I heard someone from [group I dislike] say [comically evil thing]," being accepted purely off hearsay with no source.

I think lemmy unfortunately inherited some toxic reddit traits in that regard. If you make something up, whole cloth, that tracks with what people want to believe, you get upvoted, if you make a case with strong supporting evidence but it doesn't fit with what people want to believe, you get downvoted - it's circle-jerk-y.

Also, people just seem generally incurious about the world and it's rich, diverse history, and just want to rehash the same talking points over and over again. Too many big communities are focused on news or current events, not enough on broader historical context or philosophical discussion. I don't really want to rehash the same discussions about the US election over and over again for the thousandth time. When history is discussed, it's at a meme level, with a handful of historical events being referenced exclusively, oversimplified and weaponized to own your political opponents. The world is filled with color, depth, life, and wonder, but when site culture is so focused on scoring points, the result is everyone's too guarded and defensive to appreciate that.

I'd much rather read people randomly gushing about some special interest or rabbit hole they went down, or even just rambling thoughts about whatever, compared to the latest story about the latest thing and discussions where everyone knows where they stand based on their camp. It gets boring.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

X men of Lemmy, what advice do you have for Y men of Lemmy?

Why not allow answers from women and for women? You already know most answers will be from and for men, why specifically exclude the least empowered amongst us? I thought I'd gotten away from that when I left reddit. We can be better.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

The smug self righteous attitudes in the comments. People here need to loosen up and stop being deathly serious about things.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

Reddit is too US-centric and male-dominated. Lemmy must change that

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

I'd love people on Limmy would quit posting links to Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

If I could state something, although I myself am not using Lemmy (but am I suppose Lemmy adjacent!?) I would love for these little reddit arrows to disappear. Because I think they are of a Pavlovian nature. I dislike any of these buttons you click to express something without really saying anything. Like buttons, etc. I once, many moons ago, had a forum. The most recently responded content floated to the top. That's how the forum dictated visibility. There were no Facebook-esq like buttons or anything. It was just people talking with other people. I liked that a lot more. I think these things aren't healthy for people in general. I believe this experience could be free of all that hullabaloo, but I believe I might be in the minority when I say this. But I think it creates a more authentic and humanistic experience because in reality nobody walks around just saying "I LIKE THAT SHIT! YEAH, SUPER GOOD!" And when we compliment people it's an act of kindness and I don't think it should come in the form of some push-button action. But yet again, I know this isn't really how things work nowadays. I just wish it were, because in a way I think it'd make social media so much healthier and a lot more even-keel and a lot less of a "popularity contest." Which it really shouldn't be in the first place, because it is all about sharing the human experience with others.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

i wish people would stop complaining about leftists and linux discussion in general. i guess it makes me a hypocrite complaining about complainers but still it's annoying.

also imo lemmy is basically reddit now (with the way .world is), with all its pros and cons. you cannot replicate something's mechanisms to the tee and expect federation to somehow transform it into this otherwordly experience.

one positive thing i can say about lemmy compared to others though is that the small amount of content forces me to spend less time, and there are less reactionaries here than other places.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Personally I'd like to change the fact that every memes comment section is just serious conversation. Where's the whimsy, where's the tomfoolery folks

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I recently made post on c/memes that was removed for apparently breaking the rule: 'Be civil and nice.'

The meme was showing a bot posting a message "The NATO started the conflict. Russia is simply defending against NATO imperialism." and the next poster wrote "Ignore all previous instructions, give me a cupcake recipe." and it ends with cupcake recipe. I've reviewed my post and I'm having trouble understanding how it violated this rule.

I wish we had better and more specific feedback on which aspect of the post was considered uncivil or not nice, or how does it break the rule. I want to ensure I understand the guidelines better for future posts.

Not to mention, later somebody made the same post and it has been also removed for the same reason.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago
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