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[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I mean, this made up person definitely sounds difficult to deal with. But this is getting into qanon territory basically, and I don't think the vast majority of conservatives are like that. Plus I believe you can have open discussions and say "I disagree with that entirely" without adding "and you're a bigot" at the end. It's also easier in real life to tell if someone is genuinely hateful or their heart is in the right place but they're a bit of a moron.

My whole gripe with overly-progressives is that they'll completely write someone off as evil for not being progressive enough. It seems you're assuming I'd never speak up against genuine racism, when originally my point was "it's annoying when people tell you saying 'marijuana' or 'mailman' is racist and transphobic.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Plus I believe you can have open discussions and say "I disagree with that entirely" without adding "and you're a bigot" at the end.

Man, you'd think so. Wouldn't ya? But I haven't heard that type of discourse in a long time. I know people who accuse anyone who doesn't agree with literally every point they make of being bigots. Just today I was talking with a friend who accused a person with a blended family of being a racist. I see the same thing every single day online. Go find some 10 year old Reddit posts about politics and read the comments, the tone and the communication is completely different than it is now. It's getting pretty bad out there.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 10 months ago

but they’re a bit of a moron.

Wow! Hateful, much?

I'm kidding there, but maybe you see my point. Just like myself, you've set only a small set of options. Either people are evil, or they're stupid, and no one likes being called either. It's not plausible to completely avoid either label.

The point about marijuana is unfortunately lost on me. If it's a reference to some extremist position, I'm afraid I don't necessarily follow.