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Involuntary celibacy covers that?
Don't sell them short; incel lifestyle is about so much more than (no) sex. I'd challenge you to find any incel posts that exhibit empathy or even a reasonable understanding of human interaction.
Incel as a term describes something much more specific than "virgin (but they don't want to be)." That may be the literal meaning of the words, but like, we all know that the Democratic People's Republic of North Korea is not democratic, people's, or a republic.
Incel, the way it's typically used, describes a particular type of person who's embittered by their long-lasting virginity, and because of that, views most or all members of the opposite sex as lesser than them, believing that they're in some way owed sex, and have been denied that 'right.'
Why everybody has to be so concerned with who does and who does not get laid and the reasons why?
Well sometimes the ones that can't get laid bring guns to school.
Yes?
The word "incel" colloquially covers quite a bit more territory than its acronym expansion implies, much like MAGA means quite a bit more than just a collective of individuals who want to see America succeed. But of course you know this, so why exactly are you asking?
No. I don't. That's why I'm asking.
I thought incel was an abbreviation for an involuntary celibate person, male or female, who genuinely can't have sex for a plethora of potential reasons. Since the word "involuntary" is part of the abbreviation, to me, that means the person who's celibate can't help it.
For what it's worth, I'm on the spectrum, and one aspect of my neuropathy is that I over-emphasize strict definitions of words etymologically and need to have strict meaning in communication. I perceive people using fluid or inaccurate definitions for words as a vehicle for hostile manipulation and malicious intent.
I am in therapy for this, but I'm skeptical CBT or drugs can rectify how I interpret linguistic nuance.
Of course! If you aren't getting laid, it's clearly because you're a terrible person.
But if you are getting laid that means at least one other person can stand you.