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Should I get a 2nd cat? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 11 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I own a condo and have one dog and one cat. They get along and play all the time, but I feel like the cat is often lonely and missing a cuddling companion. He's a rescue who was a street cat for years before I adopted him. I've been considering fostering or adopting another cat to give him company. Thoughts?

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

If your cat is younger I think your cat would be OK with it, but if your cat is older, in my experience older cats don't like new cats around.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago

My cat is of questionable age. The vet says 4 ish but his personality is very much "old man". He gives zero fucks and feels more like a roommate than a pet. He plays with my Shiba all the time and the dog always lets him "win". Otherwise he just chills up on his tower and blesses me with affection for 30 min a day right before bed. I feel bad because he loved the fellow cats in the shelter when I adopted him and I feel that he would be gentle and patient with a new cat. I think that fostering would be ideal, because worst case scenario I can keep the foster in my home office and best case scenario my cat would get a new companion.