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Let's please keep this civil. I respectfully disagree, but I have no problem with you voicing your opinion. The issue is your assumption that the person who disagrees with you is a horrible individual, simply because they have a different opinion. I don't even care who's right at this point - we can debate an issue without insulting each other. And even if you're enraged by it, hiding that fact and calmly countering their opinion with logic is far more effective at winning over an audience...
Edit: Before any accusation of unfair treatment is made, I'd like to clarify that I disapprove of the original comment's rhetoric as well - there was no good reason to insult conservatives ("greedy [expletive]") like they did.
What the fuck are you even talking about? Conservatives should be systemically and socially deplatformed and disenfranchised.
My issue with the person I was speaking to was the haughty arrogance they led with, presuming to argue with me about... what? Nothing they said contradicted what I was saying; yet, they come at me like a debatelord?
And now you have the arrogance to lecture me on the correct take (tm)? Literally cis white male energy. stfu
There wasn't any "haughty arrogance," they were just adding on to what you said with their view, and (from my understanding) were attempting to be polite by clarifying how your point still stands. Not everything is an argument...
What the fuck? The irony of you pointing this out to me when the other guy leads with things like "“Not to knock your worthy efforts, but…" like a pretentious debatelord who's full of himself. I agree that not everything is an argument, which is exactly why I was calling him out.
I'm genuinely sorry for misgendering you and for bringing race into it. It's not that people aren't reacting positively to my critique. I don't care about that. It's the other person talking down to me like I'm a fool or a child and he's in some formal debate that he has to "win." The last thing I need are other people inserting their opinions into the mix about how I should speak politely to that person when he was being such a cock.
And what I meant by "cis white male energy" is people feel the need to tell you their opinion, to the point that multiple people are dogpiling you telling you the same thing, none of which ever addresses the real issue.