Asklemmy

Tw: child rape, abuse, drugs, cults, alcoholism, all kinds of random stuff.

Nah that person's a piece of shit. Everybody laughing could be in a state of internal WTF JUST LAUGH ALONG or actually be part of whatever shitty culture. A lot of places legitimately don't see how this is just insanely bad emotional maturity.

Remember though, people are VERY dynamic... Whenever you think you know the range of what people are like, just remember that you're wrong and you ain't seen nothing yet, and there are still far more conservative and far more liberal, and far smarter, and far dumber, and far more messed up stuff out there.

I dated a dude last summer that was telling me about a trans girl he dated years ago that grew up in a trailer park, hooked on meth, and was habitually raped by adults her whole life and everybody in that meth cult thought it was normal.

I've known wealthy people who were good people, wealthy people who were bad people, poor people who grew up and embraced greed and became rich, slum lords, teachers that cheat on each other and end up trading spouses and remarry. Old retired people having orgies, bdsm people who want to be whipped bloody to get off, and also 40 year old virgins and people who will never, ever find anybody because of circumstances and they think it's okay. Forgiving people, people who hold grudges, people who judge blindly, people who live in their own world of privilege, people who are miserable from listening to nothing but npr, sociopath guys who want to get with me, girls who flirt with me but rob me, people absolutely addicted to drugz nonstop everyday but otherwise are perfectly functional members of society, people with iq of 50, people with iq of 170. Families that behave like Mafia and families that behave like community leaders. Families that barely resemble families

There is always a bigger fish in the pond. There is always somebody who pushes your understanding of what an npc can be. Everybody's so incredibly different, yet in a certain light, we are all the same.

My point is, be yourself. If it sounds off to you, then it isn't a good fit for you. Use your best judgement, try to think deeply to define your morality by reading some simple philosophy - or not. You're special and unique and that's okay. Life is a long journey of finding what you like and what likes you back. It really is worth standing up for what you believe in, but also try to keep an open mind and at least truly understand what other people's lives are like. But you still need to put your own mask on before you can help others. And remember, it's your life, it truly is what you make of it.

People are all dumb though and make mistakes. We're just animals, all learning by making our own mistakes. Some not learning, some deciding that they want power, others deciding on bizarre motives.

You do you, and pave your own way. Be honest with yourself though, that'll save you a lifetime of time.