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Speak for yourself. Whenever I hear the vague "they" I ask who exactly that is supposed to be. Sometimes in earnest, sometimes I just sarcastically throw it back at them: They?
But as far as I can I try to make sense of what people are trying to tell me.
BTW a PhD does not protect one from being nuts, please perish the thought.
In the case you mentioned I'd really like to know why they said it wasn't true anymore, in addition to who "they" are.
I do the same with "we". Someone will say something like "How did we get so casual about conspiracy theories?" and my first thought is "Who is 'we'? Do you have a mouse in your pocket?" because I personally don't feel like I am casual about conspiracy theories. It doesn't matter if that's accurate or not. When someone uses "we" like that, they are speaking for others in a way that might not be true and in my opinion that's a manipulative way to trick some people to think incorrectly and excludes the possibility that other people might think in a different way. I don't like when others speak on my behalf, I am not part of their "we" world.