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This isn't about grieving, just assuming the complete absence of your family and all the inheritance.

I'd pay off my medical debt and go back to university. I'm so tired. I just want to learn and stop struggling. I don't even qualify for my own debt so I have to have it in someone else's name, being bound to an abuser...

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)
  • I would grieve and no longer enjoy life at all.

If you want to daydream about what you would do if you came into a lot of money it's better to use a scenario where it's not contingent on something horrific happening.

Also, some people would only inherit debts.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I have no positive emotional ties with my family.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

@Lamb yes, I can see that. It sort of sounded more like a cry for help than a fun writing prompt.

I'm really sorry you're in that situation. If the idea of their deaths seems pleasant to you, I hope you are able to go low contact or no contact with them. The inheritance might not be worth being treated badly.