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Cheating is when you do something that betrays your partners trust.
I couldn't care less if my partners post nudes, anonymous or otherwise, so it wouldn't be cheating for me.
Other people feel differently, and so it could be cheating for them.
I also agree.
While I couldn't care less (it's their body and bodily autonomy is super important to me), I'd be a little hurt if they didn't tell me about it.
In that case I'd be more interested in talking to my partner to try and understand why they felt that they couldn't talk to me about it and needed to keep it a secret.
I don’t think that’s true. Its not cheating if you steal a bunch of money from your partner’s bank account by pretending to fall for a scam and hiding the money in some swiss account.
It’s a fucked up thing to do, but it’s not “cheating on your partner”.
maybe look up the definition of cheating
Agreed. Cheating in a relationship does not have the same definition as cheating in other contexts.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infidelity