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How do you think independently? (leminal.space)

submitted 17 hours ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I mean, we all hear about people thinking what they think only because the people around them think it too. So how do you avoid doing that?

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Cognitive dissonance is the mental discomfort people experience when holding conflicting cognitions. It is a signal that our thinking doesn't make sense and we need to change something to make that feeling go away. It is not hypocrisy or having contradictory thoughts. It's a feeling we all experience. IMO exploring our cognitive dissonance is a useful way to better critical thinking. The people you are talking about are probably not experiencing cognitive dissonance as they have long since rationlised it away.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 hours ago

Yes but it's still there when I reintroduce some rational. I can see the anger emerge as I get closer to hitting their internal contradictions. Mike Pence and his words on what happened on Jan6 is an easy shortcut to constitution-loving patriots who didn't have an issue with the coup.