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Going out on a limb here that you're either young, or some flavor of "nuero-spicy" (I think that's the hip new term people are using lately).
It's almost always used rhetorically. To a degree that I could count the number of times I've heard it used otherwise in my over 30 years of life on one hand.
The way to respond to it depends on the conversation, but generally it's your cue to change the subject, or drop the topic they were referring to. Unless you want to start an argument or make things awkward.
You're also missing some other important "rhetorical" or at least non-literal uses:
I'm sure I'm missing some other uses myself.
The only way to determine which it's being used as is through context clues, tone, body language, facial expressions, etc. Welcome to the ~~annoying as hell~~ wonderful world of navigating conversations with people that don't directly say what they mean.
It gets easier over time with experience, same as any other skill. It's just a harder skill for some of us to build than it is for others... same as any other skill.