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I have said yes to a date by mistake. (lemm.ee)
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Met a 22 yo in a group I am involved in, she asked if I wanted a lift to a meeting, there and back. I don't know her very well but she's young a lot younger than me by 10years.

So talking on the way back she mentions antidepressants, I too take anti depressants, the conversation moves towards SSRIs and sex. I panic because that shit makes me supper uncomfortable, she said some stuff that was a blatant hint. Anyway me and her have activity later in the week for the group we're in, she's invited me out for a drink after and being friendly and uncomfortable I said yea sure.

How best to proceed? I don't want things to be weird and our group get weird as a result. I wish I could set boundaries.

Worth mentioning I have crazy anxiety so don't judge too hard I mostly run on auto pilot in those situations.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago (4 children)

When I was 3 years old, my sister was twice my age. Now my sister is 33, how old am I?

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 day ago

30

Since this is Lemmy and we're all ubernerds, maybe add compound interest to the problem or something.