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[โ€“] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Actually intelligent, reads books, sense of humor, actually listens.

[โ€“] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I love my ereader but I miss the days when you could actually see what someone was reading. It was like a book recommending a person

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Someone reading a book doesn't mean the book is good.

I have a book written by a mentally ill person I met, just because I wanted to have more insight into his mental state.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago
  • Comments about reading

  • Completely misreads my sentence

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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

"good" book is highly subjective. It depends not only on your tastes but also on your general mood while reading it. Same for film and art. I saw the Mona Lisa in person and was completely unimpressed.

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (5 children)

How do you measure actually intelligent?

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago

You don't measure it. You compare it to your own intelligence and see if it matches.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

It's like art, you know it when you see it.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When they say it. If somebody says "I'm very smart" or "I'm very intelligent", you know the answer.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Excellent question. For me, it has a lot to do with their sense of humor, general outlook, and their problem solving. ymmv

[โ€“] [email protected] -3 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Have you heard about IQ Test.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The flawed metric racists use to claim they are somehow superior?

There is a reason why it isn't standard practice and only covers certain topics. It can measure some general knowledge, but is in no way indictment to the actual intelligence of a person.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yes I know the origins of IQ Tests and how it was used for justifying eugenics in USA and how Hitler got inspired by it. But I ment it as a joke to the original comment asking how to measure intelligence. And anyway who believes in a number on piece of paper we all only believe in how much upvotes we can get on Lemmy.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

No that's dumb

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

somebody talking about their IQ would be a major red flag for me lol

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is it OK if they mention that their IQ is less than 0 Kelvin.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

some healthy self-deprecation is definitely nice, but the eldritch implications of somebody representing their intelligence as convertible to a temperature value transgressing thermodynamic law intrigue me more.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Have YOU been on the mensa forums?

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

I'm theoretically Mensa qualified but when I met some I turned away. My sense of what's fun and creative did not align. At all.