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A lot of men genuinely have trouble communicating with all women (beyond superficial day-to-day interactions). I don't think that's misogynistic, I think it's a symptom of a bigger problem in society. Boys aren't taught how to interact with women, and when they fall back to what they were taught about interacting with other men they quickly get themselves in trouble.
I don't really disagree with your overall point, I just think that's being way over generous to the anon here.
Like, do you think talking to your wife like she was a dude is really the only thing at play here?
No. Since you asked, I think the communication issues are most likely caused by both people involved, not just the man. I think the wife (in the OP) was expressing her own frustration when she suggested divorce, then felt like she had to follow through with it when OOP didn't react the way she wanted/expected him to. It sounds like neither person in that relationship is communicating effectively.
Yeah, I agree with that 100%.