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What ability from people did you wish you had? (kbin.melroy.org)

submitted 3 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Being able to just simply move on from something as easily.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I say because I have ADHD too. My reaction are more thoughtful and cold in stress situations like theft assaults or accidents are way better that neurotypical ones (I'm from latinamerica so they are very common). But I have so much problems to do normal things daily and they are ruining my life.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Is that directly related to ADHD or just an independent character trait?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I have ADHD too and in those few high stress / life or death situations I've been in, I suddenly felt super calm and focused while some other people were just screaming. I read somewhere that people with ADHD are overrepresented in first responders and similar jobs and I can believe that.

That being said, I very much agree with JackByDev. Yeah, ADHD is a disability. It has caused much pain and suffering for me and I wish I could get rid of it.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks for the insight, that’s pretty interesting. But yes, it does not sound like it would be worth the trade-offs, if one got the chance to choose

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I don't think it is. There are plenty of neurotypical people who have those qualities and plenty of people with ADHD who don't. My wife has ADHD and wouldn't fit that definition.