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[–] [email protected] 131 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Ignore all the joke answers here. It seems insensitive given the subject matter. He's probably lonely and feeling left out. If he has siblings it's all the more likely. I was an alienated teenager who was in a place similar to your son I think. I eventually realized I and many others we're being used to further the agenda of some unsavory fucks who wanted to send us back to the 1860's. Try to show him how much he means to you. Let him know you care about him. Just don't drive him away, Show some love and compassion and he'll realize he's drinking the kool-aid eventually I think. Hope this helps, good luck!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Also, should work with him emphasizing that politics isn't really about having a party but before that, having an ethos. At the end of the day you need to evaluate how your ethos aligns with the parties actions, not ideas. I can't believe anyone today is conservative as I had once known them because I know the GOPs actions align only with obtaining power. Unless your ethos is "fuck you i got mine" the GOP offers you nothing. Which also means that you've already got yours. Which, looking at conservatives, I have my doubts. And if they don't have theirs, well then it's just, "fuck you." Which I can understand why a teenager would feel that way.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Barry Goldwater wouldn't recognize what his party has become. He tried to warn them. He pretty much predicted the rise of Christian nationalism.

"Mark my word, if and when these preachers get control of the party, and they're sure trying to do so, it's going to be a terrible damn problem. Frankly, these people frighten me. Politics and governing demand compromise. But these Christians believe they are acting in the name of God, so they can't and won't compromise. I know, I've tried to deal with them." - Barry Goldwater

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

I know almost zero about berry goldwater but know with a stark certainly you will never catch a current conservative saying anything like that. To think, goldwater was probably as prominent a figure as john mccain.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

He was the Republican presidential candidate in 1964. He ran against Lyndon B. Johnson. He was a very well respected man in the party. I'm not going to pretend he's the greatest politician of all time. I definitely have ideological differences but I respect him for what he fought for.