> Greentext

Never been ghosted, but I was on Tinder for 4 years (no, I didn't swipe every day) before finally finding someone. Went on like a date a year because most conversations just fizzled out before even meeting IRL and I'm not the most attractive physically, which kinda plays a role in the total amount of matches. I might have had about one a week on average.

3 months in and so far this is the most amazing woman I've ever dated and I hope this is not a temporary feeling, because rn I feel like she's an absolute keeper and my friends seem to agree too.

Point being: keep your options open, have accounts on popular dating apps just in case you accidentally swipe right on your soulmate. But don't hope for anything because you'll be disappointed. It's all random chance and your chances are low so things take time.