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What is the worst thing your parents ever did to you? (lemm.ee)

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

And then they wonder why you don't tell them things about your life, like what your hobbies are (if you are even able to enjoy hobbies anymore) or what you're enjoying.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

I do have hobbies and enjoy them, but I tend to hide everything from them, even meaningless things.

What pisses me off mostly is how much I missed out on when I was younger for her stupid ideas, things like "you want a wife from your city", "but she's black!" (yes, I'm into black women), "he's gay, if you go out with him everyone will think you're gay", "the trip is too long", shit like that...