OK so if you feel Lemmy has been trending towards hostility in the past weeks ppease here me out, interact in the comments but keep it civil.
Lemmy vs Reddit
We all had our reasons to move to Lemmy. What I remember clearly from the beginning of the summer was that we were all praising the tone. Over the years, Reddit has become increasingly toxic - most of all in the comment section. To me, that was what made Lemmy special. Even with less content, the general vobe was what made me come back every time.
clash of the clans
Due to the nature of the fediverse, we get to interact with people with different backgrounds and dofferent ideas. Potentially an incredibly enriching experience for everyone. Anti-defed lemmings defend staying federated with everyone for that precise reason, which I really get. But lately the vibe has turned sour. Every post that has the slightest political undertone becomes this big us-vs-them show. Please stop
discussion vs. shitshow
I am not arguing for stopping discussing our opinions. I also get the whole they don’t have downvotes thing. But can we please treat eachother with dignity, and when writing comments say ‘I believe’ or ‘in my opinion’ instead of ‘you all this or that’?
I think this is the only way forward if we want to prevent everyone from personally blocking a lot of instances in the furure.
I won't go into details but very quickly Lemmy has changed for the worse. I don't see it as that different from Reddit now
i think the issue is fundamental to the "meta forum" concept both lemmy and reddit share.
when comunitys are small, they mostly consist of people that are intrested, and usually knowledgeable enough to participate in discussion.
but as size and thus discoverability of a community increases, posts start trending more and more.
so less informed, and more reactionairy users (if not straight up trolls) that browse r/all start flooding the posts and dilute propper discourse with bad uninformed takes.
ti;dr essentially, reddit style plattforms turn into twitter for big communities.
Yeah that is it well articulated... I've noticed recently more and more people that seem to only want to argue... And very often not even about the actual topic at hand.