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Being mentally unstable isn't a character flaw. We should be encouraging everyone to get help. A good therapist knows what a delusion looks like, what the criteria are, and how to develop a relationship with the client to gently challenge them.
I did a little deep dive on them recently when I realized I was talking to a narcissist with grandiose delusions claiming experts in sociology and such "made up" the gender/sex distinction and, whaddya know, he thinks narcissism is a made-up disorder, too. He's been around our discord server for months and I finally popped off and posted the criteria along with how his multitude of claims fit. He understandable got pissed, but at least everyone else is aware what the criteria is now and how to walk through it themselves. (And to be clear, I only weaponized the term against him because he referred to people using neutral pronouns - such as myself, as he is well aware - delusional).
If you hold a belief with absolute conviction that has been falsified, shown counter evidence, and it impacts your functioning in society, then you may have a delusional belief. It's not uncommon or a big deal once you can recognize it and work out the logic.
We really just need to be teaching psych in high schools, honestly. Destigmatize it. Ik I'm stigmatizing narcissism a bit here, so lemme add that being a narcissist doesn't mean a person will act as abusively (if at all) as the individual I've been dealing with is, nor does abuse imply a mental disorder. It gets nuanced but I think it's fascinating
The problem is not that the person is being accused of having a character flaw. The problem is that the person cannot get help with the actual conspiracy, because the person’s reports are treated as unreliable.