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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Grew up on a farm, had no help, just decided to go get what I wanted like literally any and all Americans can. Like I said, first kid was born on Medicaid, we were on welfare for a couple years... Got a full time job at best buy... worked through community college, got off welfare... Took me about 11 years to get that first nice paycheck job where it takes others 4...but, that's ok. Can't control everything in life, live and learn.

Just use the available programs, and get off of them as soon as possible so you can start contributing more than you took from them. It's pretty easy if you just do it as a matter of principle. I received, now I give back. Once I've returned some orders of magnitude of what supported me, I can focus on what I leave behind.

The fact that it was harder for me than it is for others doesn't make me bitter or anything... I'll just make it easier for my kids on the next go-round. It's all good.