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If you like romance in fiction, how do you like it? Realistic or Idealistic? (lemmy.world)

submitted 3 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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While I was documenting myself to create a romantic work between two women, I made a little detour and read a Manga (Love Hurts, by Kiriko Nananan) that made me wonder if the idea I initially had for my story is too idealistic to the point of bordering on childish. It's just that the manga portrays interpersonal relationships in such a raw way (compared to what I've been consuming until then), that perhaps the impact it gave me was even greater than I expected.

I understand that there are those who prefer an escapist work, experiencing more of a dream than a one-on-one copy of real life. I also know that there are those who don't see much value in escapism and prefer art to function as a mirror of reality. I personally found myself somewhere in between.

What I would like to know is which side I should lean more towards in order to do the best work possible.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I like for the situation to be real, described in a way that just clicks with my inner voice. I'm not sure where in your question that notion stands.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

To be engaging and genuine. I think there's a lot of ways to achieve it, but it depends on the story and the public, because some may see too idyllic relationships as unrealistic and others may see more down-to-earth relationships as toxic.