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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Agreed.

Because of my kind nature it isn't very often that people dislike me or have a problem with me.

When they do it's always the same story for 99% of other people. So they just don't get along with anyone. Can't people please them all...

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Have you considered that you're a people pleaser? Being kind and nice is good, but do you do that in detriment of yourself? Can you say no to favors?