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Why we gave up on learning how to play an instrument? (lemm.ee)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I regret buying a guitar, I can't even do the simplest shit on it according to YouTube... I dunno if it's laziness or just being tired of sucking so much and not being able to play the music that I like... Maybe a mix of both?

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

Yesterday there was another AskLemmy about what was the easiest instrument to learn and I felt like anyone asking that question without already having a clear vision in their head of what they wanted to be playing as far as instruments and music was just going to waste their time and money, but even trying to be very polite I thought it was too negative so I didn't post it.

I think people think music will be a fun relaxing hobby, but it's really like training to be an athlete. You won't get any good unless it's something you truly want to do because it's a ton of work and a good instrument is expensive and I feel you should really start by taking lessons so you didn't waste time on trial and error figuring out what to learn instead of learning how to do it.

Craigslist and eBay are full of gear that was barely touched because music is hard. It can be very rewarding, but you will still hate it at times. I tell my teacher all the time that I hate her 3/4 of the time because she constantly challenges me, but by the end of that week, I've put in enough time to master the lesson, and then I'm so happy and feel the rest of the time was worth it. It's like some people love going to the gym and getting those endorphins or runners getting a runners high. Some people live for that, but for others, it's just hell.

It sounds like you don't enjoy the time and money you've spent. Just live and learn. Maybe come back to it later in life and see if things change. But don't force yourself into hating it.