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It does depend on the way it's said. Some people think aggression or condescension helps convince others when it might be more likely to make the person rather be wrong than agree with them. People like that can say a few words and increase resistance to their beliefs even if someone later presents them in a less offensive way. And unfortunately, Russian troll farms (and others wanting to sow division and discontent) know about this and lean into it.
It also makes a difference if you already feel that way. Like if you have a bad habit and know it but just have trouble stopping or reducing it, it's easier to agree when someone points it out vs if you're in denial about it and want reasons to continue.
Though I should have said some people because it doesn't apply to everyone. Once you're aware of how you might react to that, you can adjust. Personally, I'm of the mind that if what you think is true, then it can't hurt to challenge it or follow other lines of thought that contradict it, and if what you think isn't true, then it's better to realize that.
I want to be right about everything, but in the sense that I will change my positions over time to align with my current experience and knowledge, not in the sense that I insist that what I've previously said is true. What past me believed is irrelevant, only current me matters, and future me will likely think current me is an idiot about some things, and then I'll die later (or sooner, who knows) and it won't matter either way.