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submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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If so, does that mean people actually remember a persons name & face after only one encounter?!

If not, why do we pretend they will be upset, and try to hide the fact that we forget an unfamiliar name?

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

In my experience most conversion's don't require the use of a name, so it's not that noticeable if I forget a name.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Yeah. Using people's names much in conversation just feels like, scummy to me. Like trying to make friends and influence people or whatever