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It's almost impossible to deny being an alcoholic without sounding like an alcoholic (lemmy.world)
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[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago (2 children)

It's because denial is part of being an alcoholic. The same goes with being called a liar.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Except when it's not. I so much hate this rhetoric. You know what? You can freely think that I am one, and I genuinely think I'm not. If you think that I am one, that's your problem, not mine. That's why OP's question is so hard to answer. Because everybody is just parroting this rhetoric.

And "you are clearly an alcoholic" comments in 3, 2, 1...

[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

You can freely think that I am one, and I genuinely think I'm not. If you think that I am one, that's your problem, not mine.

I mean that's exactly the issue lol. You might not be an alcoholic, but if you were there's a solid chance you'd deny that fact.There is a good reason why parts of the 12 step program involve admitting and recognizing that there is a problem, and it's not limited to alcoholism but substance abuse in general.

A lot of people who genuinely need help refuses to see or admit that they do.