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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Streaming videos on my phone using speaker for audio while at the restaurant eating lunch. I figured for sure, everyone would want to get in on that awesome stand-up comedy action or zany talk show that I enjoy with my meal. It turns out that (gasp!) some people even think it's rude...LOL.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

To those people who say you can't express sarcasm over text.

Fucking really? Can you not see it here either?

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

No, I hate that. Standup comedy is so overrated, what I want to hear is your phone call!

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'd rather a hundred of those than some kid with mommy's iPhone watching brainrotting Youtube Kids videos all day with the sound on. At least then I won't feel bad for the kid.

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

JFC. Sometimes people visit us with kids and it's just arrive > open youtube > commence rot > spice it up 9yo twerking.

My partner is pregnant with our first child. I get the convenience of free child distraction, I also get that I might find myself doing exactly this in several years, but honestly I really hope I can find ways to at least minimise this. It just seems so Orwellian or... wall-e-ian.

I swear my kids are probably going to hate me because I'll be the most boring dad around that forces kids to play outside instead of doing all the fun stuff.

I'm sure they only do this while "mummy is visiting" and it doesn't happen at home.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think it's fine in moderation and when it's some manually curated service like the children's section of streaming platforms (but even then it's not perfect considering Cocomelon exists), or in the case of YouTube you're watching it WITH your kid to avoid running into anything weird (though I think any platform meant for content aimed towards children should be 100% manually curated). The problem is when it's excessive or it winds up sending your five year old down a bizarre rabbithole of pregnant Spiderman twerking videos because you didn't bother to moderate what they were watching.