Not a specific one, but Cialdini's book the principles of persuasion, is probably the best book on psychology, and it's centered on a short list of these "tricks" that cause an automatic "click-whirr" response in humans.
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Procrastination.
@TehBamski the way having 2 eyes lets us see 3D
Seeing this comment once... was enough. But a second time? Sheesh. /j
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