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Whether someone's life and identity is fully involved with society's labels and categories or not; when participating in society, they gotta play by its rules for the sake of everyone that isn't them. Though, of course, they'll still be subject to condemnation by those that prey on the opportunity to deliver it.

In reality, those people are as "phobic" as anyone clicking the BBD category and getting hentai vids popping up instead. It's not what they're into and it's not what they came there for. Breaking those categories and labels is intentional deception that will result in no reward and only harm. It is in no consideration of others and who they are, for sake of potential and unlikely self-gain. It is entirely self-centered to fake something and lie, in hopes of taking advantage of other people. This is exceptionally cruel in a psychosocial environment, especially a sexual one. And then to play a "phobia" card, it's a predatory move.