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[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (9 children)

Sure, I'll bite.

Do not attempt to tell me "what I'm thinking"

I'm not going to pretend that my way of thinking is "unique" because I can't speak for how others think, but I expect that same courtesy to apply to me as well. For example, whenever someone says "You seem to think..." it upsets me quite a bit. What I say out loud (or "write" I suppose) doesn't include the context of how I got to that point.

I very much am happy for people to tell me when I'm wrong on something, because if I'm wrong I would like to know (more-so if they can actually prove it... just saying "You're wrong" and not saying how leads to nothing, but that is a whole other rant). However, one thing that that no one can assert to know more than I do is how I think, what I'm thinking, or the methods that I used to arrive to something I've said/done. You can possibly predict it depending on how long you've known me for, but to try to claim you know exactly what, is very egregious in my eyes.

I have a pretty high tolerance before my temper is set off (or as I like to say "A very long fuse, but an even higher yield when that fuse runs out"), but there is a small list of exceptions to that - one being hypocrisy, and the other being this.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 11 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

He's completely correct so the onus is on you to retract or clarify what youmre doing here. This is pretty obnoxious even if you're joking. Other threads dude, unless you want a problem.

I'm game either way, lets go, lets start making some better-taste choices here

[–] [email protected] -2 points 10 months ago

You seem to think I’m trolling.

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