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[–] [email protected] 76 points 5 days ago (36 children)

I'm finding very little of this thread resonates with me. I have a toddler who I love and get to spend a whole day off with during the week. I still get to do my running, cycling, rock climbing. I get some reading done most nights.

I've mostly sacrificed video games and social life, but rock climbing is social and a happy child is far more rewarding than games.

There are sacrifices, but I don't feel like I've given up my life. Is this because I don't live in the USA?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

curious if you have somewhere/someone you can trust the toddler with while you do those hobbies.

I found that having a support network (either personal through friends family, or socialized through the government) has a big effect on how miserable parents are early on.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

We just take it in turns.

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