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Be there for your ladies (lemmy.ca)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 121 points 1 year ago (65 children)

I don't want to sound like an incel, and I like eating vag/salad as much as the next guy, but imagine this image with the genders reversed

[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (19 children)

IMO either party doing this is fine as long as it's discussed and within the comfort bounds of the people in the relationship.

I think the problem is an expectation when there has been no discussion about whether or not it's within someone's limits.

[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 year ago (17 children)

I have no issue with oral sex between consenting adults. But this meme would not be as well received if the genders were reversed. It's hard to even imagine someone posting "always be there for your man in a time of crisis" with the woman going down on the guy.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I can only speak for myself but I wouldn't really mind it the other way around as long as there's no implied use of force or manipulation.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Feel free to reverse the genders & post this on twitter then. Getting banned from the internet speedrun any%