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I just got ghosted by the girl I was talking to, I want to find another girl to talk to. This girl and I met at the gym, but I don't want to be the guy that goes to the gym just to meet girls. I mean sure there's the bar and Tinder, but I want a real relationship. I mean, I guess it'll come to me.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 88 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (11 children)

No matter what so many people say, it's not mandatory to have a partner!

Invest your effort in figuring out how to live with yourself. Build a life worth living on your own.
A right person might come, or not. But at least you didn't waste your life chasing wrong goals.

[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It isn't, but loneliness sucks.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Good friends are a better cure to loneliness than one person, no matter how cool they are

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