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When 99% of traffic has already formed a single lane then the guy trying to go past a bunch of people and cause an extra unnecessary merge is the asshole and I'm not letting him by.
That used to be my old daily commute. Everyone had already "zipped up" were now in a bumper to bumper column, yet people just fly down the right and then cutoff the whole column to get in. Delaying everyone. Anytime I bring up this "problem" I am told it's actually not a problem, it's the way it's supposed to work, and apparently I am the asshole for complaining about 2 dozen people cutting me off every morning, before I can move past one choke point.
I might be wrong about this, but I think you're supposed to wait until the last minute to zipper merge. That way, everyone gets the benefit of it.
This is correct.